My GF didnt do it to me either in the 1st month. But i just convinced her to do it cause i started talking about it and arousing her about it when she was very horny, and NEVER after or before sex. She eventually did, and began to like it a lot.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
GF won't give head
- Thread starter WORKEROUTER
- Start date
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
This goes back to sexual compatibility to me. The girl I'm seeing now is unbelievable at oral sex and would give it in a heartbeat. Problem is that I climax easier with sex, but she isn't that into sexual intercourse. However, I've gotten her to the point of where she wants to do it. Once I didn't have a condom on me or else we would have.
This girl also doesn't like oral sex performed on her. It makes her uncomfortable. She loves the finger though, and I will gladly oblige. Everyone's different, but if you find someone who likes something that you don't or vice versa, you're screwed (no pun intended)
This girl also doesn't like oral sex performed on her. It makes her uncomfortable. She loves the finger though, and I will gladly oblige. Everyone's different, but if you find someone who likes something that you don't or vice versa, you're screwed (no pun intended)
91redrotary
Don Juan
Get rid of her ass point blank. You'll end up frustrating yourself.
WORKEROUTER
Master Don Juan
Seems like there's two different opinions here:
1. Continue with the girl, take it slow, and it will eventually work out.
2. Dump her ass.
I guess I could continue with option 1 since option 2 is always there.
1. Continue with the girl, take it slow, and it will eventually work out.
2. Dump her ass.
I guess I could continue with option 1 since option 2 is always there.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
the_great_gaia
Senior Don Juan
If she don't do it, find somebody else that will.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
yeah give her a chance. i mean you cant blame them if they are new at it. I mean if that was the case then nobody would get nowhere in life cause they would just be stuck as a trainee
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
and you can teacher her! so she will do what you want
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
If she is willing ot learn, even slowly, then fine.
If she is absolutely set on never giving a BJ to anybody, you better next her. You won't be happy.
You had better believe that some women will NEVER want to do it, and they will try to train you accept this.
I would guess from my limited knowledge that up to 30% of women never do it, and their chump BFs or husbands give up and live without it. Maybe they do not like it, but most likely they just gave up. Don't be one of them!
Dietzcoi
If she is absolutely set on never giving a BJ to anybody, you better next her. You won't be happy.
You had better believe that some women will NEVER want to do it, and they will try to train you accept this.
I would guess from my limited knowledge that up to 30% of women never do it, and their chump BFs or husbands give up and live without it. Maybe they do not like it, but most likely they just gave up. Don't be one of them!
Dietzcoi
How old is this girl?
You're going to have to get inside her head more to crack this one bro.
From the way you post, you seem like a hard-charging guy ... something that may not work with this young girl (or most for that matter) ... you're going to have to SEDUCE her rather than directly or indirectly demand sex.
How to do that, just some ideas (every chick is different and YOUR personality is different, so adjust accordingly).
1. Make it okay for her to talk about sex. Talk about it with her, make little jokes.
2. Make her feel good about her body (lots of these young chicks have self-esteem issues). It's sometimes easier to fvck a chick than to get head from her. But, once she becomes sexual, she will likely be more open to anything.
Other than that ... you really ought to think about seeing other women ANYWAY because you seem like you might be relatively young (ie., not ready to settle down and get married) and dating multiple women may be a good way for you to see the differences in women. I personally at this point wouldn't put up with this from a girl ... but it's only because I know the difference.
Just my thoughts.
You're going to have to get inside her head more to crack this one bro.
From the way you post, you seem like a hard-charging guy ... something that may not work with this young girl (or most for that matter) ... you're going to have to SEDUCE her rather than directly or indirectly demand sex.
How to do that, just some ideas (every chick is different and YOUR personality is different, so adjust accordingly).
1. Make it okay for her to talk about sex. Talk about it with her, make little jokes.
2. Make her feel good about her body (lots of these young chicks have self-esteem issues). It's sometimes easier to fvck a chick than to get head from her. But, once she becomes sexual, she will likely be more open to anything.
Other than that ... you really ought to think about seeing other women ANYWAY because you seem like you might be relatively young (ie., not ready to settle down and get married) and dating multiple women may be a good way for you to see the differences in women. I personally at this point wouldn't put up with this from a girl ... but it's only because I know the difference.
Just my thoughts.
WORKEROUTER
Master Don Juan
She's 20; I'm 18.
I definately agree with what you said. I need to work on being a bit more seducing than direct.
And seeing other women is definately a good idea. I'm going to play it cool, keep my confidence, and see how everything turns out.
its not so easy to get frigid newbies to start talking about their bodies. i know my girl shies away from it when i do, and gets embarassed and hits out by saying how dirty i am etc.
thing is, talk is cheap, you'll want to use action to really get her on. firstly, u have to be controlling, but in a gentle way, and give her body alot of attention in bed so she almost feels obliged to do something back to you.
the purpose of giving her body SLOW, SENSUAL attention is to get her in such a sexual state that she forgets about the stigma / taboo and just does it. its similar to the foreplay wetting up a girl till she starts wanting sex despite telling u 1/2 an hour ago that she wanted only heavy petting
it'll take time, it took time for me to score that sorta attention, but i did it slowly, got her into a highly sexual state. the important thing to know is that:
women do not want to feel pressure because then it makes it even harder for them to do it for you... cuz its like a psychological force thats pushing her .
so my suggestion is be gentle, not charging crazy bull. but get her really turned on, over and over and over again, just strip her, control her, whatever, but do it slowly and get her in a very sexual state till she gets used to it and eventually wants to try things with you
thing is, talk is cheap, you'll want to use action to really get her on. firstly, u have to be controlling, but in a gentle way, and give her body alot of attention in bed so she almost feels obliged to do something back to you.
the purpose of giving her body SLOW, SENSUAL attention is to get her in such a sexual state that she forgets about the stigma / taboo and just does it. its similar to the foreplay wetting up a girl till she starts wanting sex despite telling u 1/2 an hour ago that she wanted only heavy petting
it'll take time, it took time for me to score that sorta attention, but i did it slowly, got her into a highly sexual state. the important thing to know is that:
women do not want to feel pressure because then it makes it even harder for them to do it for you... cuz its like a psychological force thats pushing her .
so my suggestion is be gentle, not charging crazy bull. but get her really turned on, over and over and over again, just strip her, control her, whatever, but do it slowly and get her in a very sexual state till she gets used to it and eventually wants to try things with you
CamaroMike
Don Juan
Uhhh, how about you get a new girlfriend?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.