"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
GF went out with guy drinking
- Thread starter walker_hunter2010
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
walker_hunter2010
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I know this because I was in your position once years ago and I blindly believed her although I knew deep down what happened but I was in denial.
I would never do this again and will advise you to get rid of her
I know its not what you want to hear but it would be much worse if you let it go and then have second thoughts. This will eat you from the inside until an argument explodes where you will say what you really mean and break with her
Sorry bro trust me, been there done that and don't want to do it ever again.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=224357
btw yes he had sex with that guy, even she didn't she did something you shouldn't condone and for the sake of your own self respect you should end with her and find a better woman
Albatross953
Master Don Juan
You ignore this fact at your own peril.
Walker! Walker! You're not thinking straight so let's take a minute to rationalize this thread and close it with this final post,its just a bunch of the same so here it is,walker_hunter2010 said:
As a starting dj your intial thoughts will be to try and believe the gf, and why wouldn't you?after all she's never done something like this before right? Well why would she even bring it up? After all nothing happened and it's not because she wanted to make you jealous either because she was already trying to make up so why did she?
Because she is testing you to see what she can get a way with aka ultimate beta test,if she can get away with this "anything goes and will continue to go!" it's like when somebody witnesses a murder and doesn't do anything but then asks somebody else "what if I hypothetically saw a murder and did not report it,what would happen?"
Anyway just remember this saying young grasshopper,
THERE is nobody more blind than he who does not want to SEE
Good luck