"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
GF went out with guy drinking
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
walker_hunter2010
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I know this because I was in your position once years ago and I blindly believed her although I knew deep down what happened but I was in denial.
I would never do this again and will advise you to get rid of her
I know its not what you want to hear but it would be much worse if you let it go and then have second thoughts. This will eat you from the inside until an argument explodes where you will say what you really mean and break with her
Sorry bro trust me, been there done that and don't want to do it ever again.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=224357
btw yes he had sex with that guy, even she didn't she did something you shouldn't condone and for the sake of your own self respect you should end with her and find a better woman
Albatross953
Master Don Juan
You ignore this fact at your own peril.
Walker! Walker! You're not thinking straight so let's take a minute to rationalize this thread and close it with this final post,its just a bunch of the same so here it is,walker_hunter2010 said:
As a starting dj your intial thoughts will be to try and believe the gf, and why wouldn't you?after all she's never done something like this before right? Well why would she even bring it up? After all nothing happened and it's not because she wanted to make you jealous either because she was already trying to make up so why did she?
Because she is testing you to see what she can get a way with aka ultimate beta test,if she can get away with this "anything goes and will continue to go!" it's like when somebody witnesses a murder and doesn't do anything but then asks somebody else "what if I hypothetically saw a murder and did not report it,what would happen?"
Anyway just remember this saying young grasshopper,
THERE is nobody more blind than he who does not want to SEE
Good luck