"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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GF went behind my back

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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CMNILS87

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Anal is not even an option for me, I've had it once with some hoebag. I'm too thick.

But what I realise from your post is sex 3-4 times a week is very healthy, I used to bang my ex 3-4 times in a night/morning.

Then it went down to once a week, and both of us were happy with that. I was happy not to see her for a week, how bad is that.
Yikes. I have a a lot of **** going on including school, work, hobbies. So 2-3 in a day is out of the question. I got other stuff to do than **** got a whole morning
 

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Sounds you don't want to commit.

Than don't waste her time.

The longer you wait, the more damaged she will become.

Time for you to close her and get back hunting
 

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Yikes. I have a a lot of **** going on including school, work, hobbies. So 2-3 in a day is out of the question. I got other stuff to do than **** got a whole morning
That would only be weekends. During the week if we stayed out each other’s house it would be sex in the evening and sex before work in the morning.
 
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