"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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GF went behind my back

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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CMNILS87

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Anal is not even an option for me, I've had it once with some hoebag. I'm too thick.

But what I realise from your post is sex 3-4 times a week is very healthy, I used to bang my ex 3-4 times in a night/morning.

Then it went down to once a week, and both of us were happy with that. I was happy not to see her for a week, how bad is that.
Yikes. I have a a lot of **** going on including school, work, hobbies. So 2-3 in a day is out of the question. I got other stuff to do than **** got a whole morning
 

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Sounds you don't want to commit.

Than don't waste her time.

The longer you wait, the more damaged she will become.

Time for you to close her and get back hunting
 

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Yikes. I have a a lot of **** going on including school, work, hobbies. So 2-3 in a day is out of the question. I got other stuff to do than **** got a whole morning
That would only be weekends. During the week if we stayed out each other’s house it would be sex in the evening and sex before work in the morning.
 
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