Huffman
Master Don Juan
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Hi all, so I finally got myself in a LTR with a girl who is all I'm looking for. For 6 months now everything has been good, great even. We seem to be a really good match. We do lots of fun stuff together, I hold the power in the relationship and she's happy to please, never throws a tantrum, nothing!
But recently something irritating has happened and I'm not sure how to best go about it. I never buy her anything or stuff, but on Valentine's day I had her over and made a nice dinner for the two of us. You know, just this once. And after that she's suddenly become clingy! She texts me multiple times a day and since I, out of habit, don't reply until evening she texts more and more "everything OK with you?"
This is starting to be a major turn off, in fact everything was awesome for 6 months in a row, until that day, and now she's suddenly all clingy and insecure. I feel pressured by her expectation that I'd be available to talk so much, which I've never been in the past. I don't want to hear every detail every day, I want to see you on the weekend and then we have a great time.
I know I've got to set her straight or else this might develop into a serious problem. But I'm not sure how to tell her "I don't want to talk / see you that often" without sounding like I don't love her. Because I do! But I want to keep it exciting, because life is too short to talk abut mundane stuff every day.
But recently something irritating has happened and I'm not sure how to best go about it. I never buy her anything or stuff, but on Valentine's day I had her over and made a nice dinner for the two of us. You know, just this once. And after that she's suddenly become clingy! She texts me multiple times a day and since I, out of habit, don't reply until evening she texts more and more "everything OK with you?"
This is starting to be a major turn off, in fact everything was awesome for 6 months in a row, until that day, and now she's suddenly all clingy and insecure. I feel pressured by her expectation that I'd be available to talk so much, which I've never been in the past. I don't want to hear every detail every day, I want to see you on the weekend and then we have a great time.
I know I've got to set her straight or else this might develop into a serious problem. But I'm not sure how to tell her "I don't want to talk / see you that often" without sounding like I don't love her. Because I do! But I want to keep it exciting, because life is too short to talk abut mundane stuff every day.
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