My girlfriend told me on the phone the other day that a female friend of hers showed her a picture on her cell phone of her boyfriend's penis. I was thrown off by it and had no idea of how to react. What could this mean? Is she suggesting she's cool with three ways? Is she hiding being a swinger? Is she unfaithful? Was it nothing at all? Is it normal for girls to show each other pictures like this? They do share all kinds of inappropriate behavior. This is so strange, I need the advice of my DJ colleagues.
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GF tells me her female friend showed me a pict her her bf penis
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
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Legionarius
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maybe she's just being honest with you? Why do people over think everything so much
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teacha
Senior Don Juan
maybe she's cheating on you lol...
By the way some girls do this all the time just to show off to their girlfriends; esp if he has a huge ****. But the only danger in that is the girls that have seen usually just wanna try him out once they've seen the pic. That is how dyck can come between good friends. I would never show my girlfriends my man's dyck pics because of that reason...you never know what b*tch would stab you in the back. LOL!
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
come on man... this doesn't mean #hit! ... to take your GF friend showing her a penis on a phone as meaning she wants to be a swinger???? that's quite a leap....
women... show this type of stuff to other women.... im about 190 now and haven't hit a gym in 6 months (i got an injury and it's healed now, but i just don't feel like rebuilding what took me 2 years to build!!!).... but back when i was ripped and 175 - all the girls i was messing with would want to take pictures of my body... not so they could look at the picture and slip a vibrator in when they were alone..... but so they could show me off to friends....
girl with pictures of their bf's pen!s are going to show it off...
the real moral of this story should be: don't get pictures of your pen!s taken by your girlfriend, unless you want all her friends to see it.
women... show this type of stuff to other women.... im about 190 now and haven't hit a gym in 6 months (i got an injury and it's healed now, but i just don't feel like rebuilding what took me 2 years to build!!!).... but back when i was ripped and 175 - all the girls i was messing with would want to take pictures of my body... not so they could look at the picture and slip a vibrator in when they were alone..... but so they could show me off to friends....
girl with pictures of their bf's pen!s are going to show it off...
the real moral of this story should be: don't get pictures of your pen!s taken by your girlfriend, unless you want all her friends to see it.
Nah. We're just screwing with you. What she really means (after you decode the message) is that she wants some perfume for her birthday wrapped in a large 3.5lb box with a purple spotted bow on top.Maeisgood said:
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Dude, if one of your boys showed you a pic of someones tits you would look. This is a non-issue
BlackJackal
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Ummm insecure much?Maeisgood said:
Alot of you really overthink every little detail and thing women do, and get stressed out and come here typing with tears in your eyes. Look it's nothing, no different than if your boy showed you a pic of his girlfriend naked. Get a grip.