Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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GF tells me her female friend showed me a pict her her bf penis

Maeisgood

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My girlfriend told me on the phone the other day that a female friend of hers showed her a picture on her cell phone of her boyfriend's penis. I was thrown off by it and had no idea of how to react. What could this mean? Is she suggesting she's cool with three ways? Is she hiding being a swinger? Is she unfaithful? Was it nothing at all? Is it normal for girls to show each other pictures like this? They do share all kinds of inappropriate behavior. This is so strange, I need the advice of my DJ colleagues.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Legionarius

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maybe she's just being honest with you? Why do people over think everything so much
 

Alle_Gory

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Moral of the story: Girls, like guys, also do stupid sh*t without thinking.
 

Ease

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why are you stressing over a picture of a ****?

Be a bit more confident man..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Maeisgood

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Thanks for the responses. I'm usually expecting people to just say, "She's cheating on you, you're an AFC, don't be so wussy."
 

teacha

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maybe she's cheating on you lol...:D
 

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By the way some girls do this all the time just to show off to their girlfriends; esp if he has a huge ****. But the only danger in that is the girls that have seen usually just wanna try him out once they've seen the pic. That is how dyck can come between good friends. I would never show my girlfriends my man's dyck pics because of that reason...you never know what b*tch would stab you in the back. LOL!
 

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come on man... this doesn't mean #hit! ... to take your GF friend showing her a penis on a phone as meaning she wants to be a swinger???? that's quite a leap....

women... show this type of stuff to other women.... im about 190 now and haven't hit a gym in 6 months (i got an injury and it's healed now, but i just don't feel like rebuilding what took me 2 years to build!!!).... but back when i was ripped and 175 - all the girls i was messing with would want to take pictures of my body... not so they could look at the picture and slip a vibrator in when they were alone..... but so they could show me off to friends....

girl with pictures of their bf's pen!s are going to show it off...


the real moral of this story should be: don't get pictures of your pen!s taken by your girlfriend, unless you want all her friends to see it.
 

Alle_Gory

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Maeisgood said:
Thanks for the responses. I'm usually expecting people to just say, "She's cheating on you, you're an AFC, don't be so wussy."
Nah. We're just screwing with you. What she really means (after you decode the message) is that she wants some perfume for her birthday wrapped in a large 3.5lb box with a purple spotted bow on top.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Maeisgood said:
My girlfriend told me on the phone the other day that a female friend of hers showed her a picture on her cell phone of her boyfriend's penis. I was thrown off by it and had no idea of how to react. What could this mean? Is she suggesting she's cool with three ways? Is she hiding being a swinger? Is she unfaithful? Was it nothing at all? Is it normal for girls to show each other pictures like this? They do share all kinds of inappropriate behavior. This is so strange, I need the advice of my DJ colleagues.
Ummm insecure much?

Alot of you really overthink every little detail and thing women do, and get stressed out and come here typing with tears in your eyes. Look it's nothing, no different than if your boy showed you a pic of his girlfriend naked. Get a grip.
 
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