"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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GF: "so what do you want to do tonight?"

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muscleman

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This comes up rather frequently and it's perfectly normal, but I'm really running out of options here. We already go to the movies/bars enough. We're not rollin in money either so it's not like we can do whatever. I look at the nightlife/events in my city but there's not too much there either. Going out to parks and what not is good, but we usually hang out in the evenings (we both work) so it's normally sundown before we get together.

Suggestions anyone?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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mrRuckus

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Don't see her as often.

I'm serious.

I've always made the mistake of seeing them too often and not letting them miss me. Then when you get together to do anything she's just happy she gets to see you and what you do is no big deal.

And it takes the weight off my shoulders and let's me do the alone time things I like to do... and you don't get bored with each other.
 
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Matt ala Casanova

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To add to MrRuckus,

Just make sure you fine tune the lapse of in between time. Each girl is different and the goal is to see how much in between they can stand. You want to ride that and she will really love it when she does see you. Don't make it go stale by seeing her too much.
 
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