"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"You're so up and down!"
"You're so mean to me!"
"You're so unpredictable!" (sometimes you're nice sometimes you're mean to me!)
"You're so gay!"
"Why are you such an assh0le?"
"I hate you!!" (usually i get this once i tease her and she doesn't have a good comeback :) )

This might be out of context, but I just wanted some advice. This is usually when we're bantering and teasing each other mixed in with lots of kino and kissing and sh!t...am i doing the right thing? I usually tease her a lot, C+F, neg hits and what not when we are hanging out one on one. This is kind of the relationship we had with each other when i was pursing her; I'm wondering if I need to make some changes now that we're going steady or should I keep up what we're doing? We've been going out for a few months but I've known her for about a year.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dude, you ve been here since 2007

you should know by now that you have her eating out of your hand.
 

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i know girls like this **** all the time when you're trying to game them at parties and clubs and whatnot, but i guess my question is: does it ever get old? can you tease someone "too much?"
 

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well dont over do it but you should know where to draw the line. keep doing what you are doing and have it all under control. i know couples where after 6 years of being together the man still teases his girl.

so dont worry about it too much, just keep up the good work and dont try to be too rude.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The last girl I was dating for a while was totally in love with me and would say similar things, like "you're so hot and cold" and similar statements.
 

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Smoofle - you make me proud.
Well done, son.
And Yes, you can borrow the station wagon next Saturday night. Be home by 1 am, OK?
 
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Cry For Love said:
read her, when she starts gettin annoyed u know u messed up lol
CORRECTION: If she starts to get annoyed and you take that as a sign that you've messed up and therefore back off and stop doing whatever it was that got her annoyed - then you've just given her your balls.

correction course of action if a woman is getting annoyed with you - continue to annoy her more than fvck her hard!
 
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