"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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smoofle

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"You're so up and down!"
"You're so mean to me!"
"You're so unpredictable!" (sometimes you're nice sometimes you're mean to me!)
"You're so gay!"
"Why are you such an assh0le?"
"I hate you!!" (usually i get this once i tease her and she doesn't have a good comeback :) )

This might be out of context, but I just wanted some advice. This is usually when we're bantering and teasing each other mixed in with lots of kino and kissing and sh!t...am i doing the right thing? I usually tease her a lot, C+F, neg hits and what not when we are hanging out one on one. This is kind of the relationship we had with each other when i was pursing her; I'm wondering if I need to make some changes now that we're going steady or should I keep up what we're doing? We've been going out for a few months but I've known her for about a year.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dude, you ve been here since 2007

you should know by now that you have her eating out of your hand.
 

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i know girls like this **** all the time when you're trying to game them at parties and clubs and whatnot, but i guess my question is: does it ever get old? can you tease someone "too much?"
 

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well dont over do it but you should know where to draw the line. keep doing what you are doing and have it all under control. i know couples where after 6 years of being together the man still teases his girl.

so dont worry about it too much, just keep up the good work and dont try to be too rude.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The last girl I was dating for a while was totally in love with me and would say similar things, like "you're so hot and cold" and similar statements.
 

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Smoofle - you make me proud.
Well done, son.
And Yes, you can borrow the station wagon next Saturday night. Be home by 1 am, OK?
 
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Cry For Love said:
read her, when she starts gettin annoyed u know u messed up lol
CORRECTION: If she starts to get annoyed and you take that as a sign that you've messed up and therefore back off and stop doing whatever it was that got her annoyed - then you've just given her your balls.

correction course of action if a woman is getting annoyed with you - continue to annoy her more than fvck her hard!
 
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