Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Since wen searching for answer become needyjimmy18 said:OP's c0ck size isn't the problem.
His neediness as evidenced by multi-posting in this thread is.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Ha, this is awesome. From top to bottom.Vulpine said:Funny.
This whole thread carries on about small p-p's as though women have no accountability for gaping snatches.
Just as guys have various sizes, so do women. Chuck her at the curb and find a gal who is shallow. The problem is, there isn't really a physical indicator, like "big feet", for women. I've done tall, short, fat, skinny... some made me feel huge, others... well, fitting four fingers easily isn't exactly going to make me feel adequate. You have to try on vaginas like shoes: you wouldn't buy used, smelly shoes that are too big. Find something that fits and don't settle for hand-me-downs and certainly don't believe "gently used" is an appropriate description.
Women who use those stupid-huge dildos stretch their shît and wreck themselves. It's really no wonder "dîck size" is an issue with women. These sorts of women are the same that complain about "no good men" or a lack of donkey-hung dudes out there: is it any wonder they can't enjoy the real deal when they finally get it? Vibrators... psshhhfff... women themselves are responsible for their sexual dysfunctions.
There is nothing in nature that can replicate the revolutions-per-minute that a vibrator pulses at short of hummingbird wings or insect wings. They train their bodies to only orgasm with artificial means. Over time, the brain "learns" to filter out standard, comparatively "light" inputs and only registers over-stimulation. The same with horse-riding chicks. Their ****s pound against the saddle hundreds and hundreds of times to an extent that licking or rubbing by a guy doesn't even register anymore. I've experienced several gals that actually liked cl¡t "nibbling": WAY too hard!
If you think this chick is loose, find her dildo and see why. If she's using a 8-inch long, 2" across, rubber dong... well, the puzzy will stretch to accommodate. It stretches to accommodate baby heads, so, clearly it stretches out. It takes time to shrink down, but it could. However, if she's not willing to stop stretching out her ƒuck-hole with her trusty viber, it will never shrink back.
Her: "How dare you accuse me of something because of your small d¡ck!"
Don't accept that a gaping snatch has anything to do with YOUR size. It isn't a man's fault that woman tries stuffing bowling pins and fists into her storage unit. Given modern women's lack of accountability, it's no stretch of the imagination to understand how, rather than admit their puzzy's abuse by their own hand, men get the blame. Just as with anything else, it's easy to point at the big, bad, man instead of acknowledge the offense is of their own doing.
Don't buy into the bullsh¡t, women's cack carousel riding and fence-post dildo use is more the issue than penis size. Period. It's just convenient for them to blame it away. Toss the cvmdumpster and get yourself a quality woman.
Yeah, I said: "quality woman". Let's not get into it. I believe "unstretched-out vagina" belongs on the list. If nothing else, it feels better, but women are called "loose" for a reason. Loose morals = loose vagina.
But, if you insist on persisting with this woman, make her relinquish her dildos to your custody. Then, don't have vag intercourse or penetration with anything but one finger for a month or more (insist she keeps objects out, too). With any luck, her sh¡t will constrict back to something more natural in size. Either give it time, or, next. You'll have to choose based on your observations.
You: "Hey, let's work on shrinking up your gaping hole, eh?"
Her: :cuss:
You: "Then, OUT!" *point at door* :kick:
Good luck.![]()
This.Vulpine said:But, if you insist on persisting with this woman, make her relinquish her dildos to your custody. Then, don't have vag intercourse or penetration with anything but one finger for a month or more (insist she keeps objects out, too). With any luck, her sh¡t will constrict back to something more natural in size. Either give it time, or, next. You'll have to choose based on your observations.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Working out and getting to a healthy weight is always best for both men and women. But I have a confession to make. At a relatively thin weight I had a fling once with a fat chick. Not one of those ones with 8 rolls above the \|/, but fat by most people's standards. But HB10 in the face, slim neck. Just "fat" below there. It was freaking awesome. I sometimes regret cutting it off for a much thinner and hotter chick that nearly ruined my life.. It's really about attraction.. You either feel it or you don't. This one fat chick I fvcked was some damn good sex and I am not ashamed of fvcking her, just ashamed of moving on to the chick after that that nearly ruined my life (the bigamist wh0re).Capt.America said:Thanks a lot man . If be r to start working out now since she's kind of heavy lol !
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.