"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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GF says inappropriate things

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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usernamedox11

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She had the power and she knew it. You lost frame with this one long before this incident. Learn from it and improve for next time. I would start with looking at why she disrespected you in the first place.

Here is a couple ideas...
-You gave her time, then came back = she had you hooked. I am guessing she cast a line and you bit.
-You didn't lead her well enough
-You reacted to her comment instead of saying something witty = she won
-You attempted to justify your actions with past actions. A man's good deeds are irrelevant the moment he makes one mistake. It is a sad unfortunate truth.

I don't know anything about you, so I am just throwing crap against the wall
I think she's just not a good catch
 

Urbanyst

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I actually agree with Guru.
You solely insulting him with no argument kinda make you look like you lost the argument here...
I don't care what anything "looks like". I care about the facts.

Btw.. I'm not "insulting" @guru1000 at all. I'm parroting the sh*t he said HIMSELF.

LOL.
 
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