"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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GF says inappropriate things

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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usernamedox11

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She had the power and she knew it. You lost frame with this one long before this incident. Learn from it and improve for next time. I would start with looking at why she disrespected you in the first place.

Here is a couple ideas...
-You gave her time, then came back = she had you hooked. I am guessing she cast a line and you bit.
-You didn't lead her well enough
-You reacted to her comment instead of saying something witty = she won
-You attempted to justify your actions with past actions. A man's good deeds are irrelevant the moment he makes one mistake. It is a sad unfortunate truth.

I don't know anything about you, so I am just throwing crap against the wall
I think she's just not a good catch
 

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I actually agree with Guru.
You solely insulting him with no argument kinda make you look like you lost the argument here...
I don't care what anything "looks like". I care about the facts.

Btw.. I'm not "insulting" @guru1000 at all. I'm parroting the sh*t he said HIMSELF.

LOL.
 
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