"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Gf says I'm too immature and selfish

The North Dragon

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Huffman said:
Don't see the problem here. Why can't she move to her dad's and then just visit you regularly? You know, that's what people do if they don't have money for a house.

The main problem is actually her behaviour but the other guys have covered that already :)
I suggested this but she made excuses and said i wouldn't travel blah blah because when she moved away about 15 miles for a job i complained about travelling ha.

but she then said i would end up dumping her as soon as moved up their but i reassured her i wouldn't
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The North Dragon

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so she seems adamant on leaving guys as she text me reassuring me to collect the remainder of my things at her flatmates house after i went ghost yesterday.

Don't even know if i should reply?

And how will i get my 90bucks back, especailly if she doesn't earn much she will make bull**** excuses?

didn't think this would end the way it has despite how good things were going before she lost her job etc
 

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Good 'ol blighty.
A girl that calls you selfish is a girl that's invested in you. Which means her attraction level in you is above half way.

Don't lose that trait dude.
 
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