“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Gf says I'm too immature and selfish

The North Dragon

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Huffman said:
Don't see the problem here. Why can't she move to her dad's and then just visit you regularly? You know, that's what people do if they don't have money for a house.

The main problem is actually her behaviour but the other guys have covered that already :)
I suggested this but she made excuses and said i wouldn't travel blah blah because when she moved away about 15 miles for a job i complained about travelling ha.

but she then said i would end up dumping her as soon as moved up their but i reassured her i wouldn't
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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so she seems adamant on leaving guys as she text me reassuring me to collect the remainder of my things at her flatmates house after i went ghost yesterday.

Don't even know if i should reply?

And how will i get my 90bucks back, especailly if she doesn't earn much she will make bull**** excuses?

didn't think this would end the way it has despite how good things were going before she lost her job etc
 

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A girl that calls you selfish is a girl that's invested in you. Which means her attraction level in you is above half way.

Don't lose that trait dude.
 
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