"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Gf says I'm too immature and selfish

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Huffman said:
Don't see the problem here. Why can't she move to her dad's and then just visit you regularly? You know, that's what people do if they don't have money for a house.

The main problem is actually her behaviour but the other guys have covered that already :)
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I suggested this but she made excuses and said i wouldn't travel blah blah because when she moved away about 15 miles for a job i complained about travelling ha.

but she then said i would end up dumping her as soon as moved up their but i reassured her i wouldn't
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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so she seems adamant on leaving guys as she text me reassuring me to collect the remainder of my things at her flatmates house after i went ghost yesterday.

Don't even know if i should reply?

And how will i get my 90bucks back, especailly if she doesn't earn much she will make bull**** excuses?

didn't think this would end the way it has despite how good things were going before she lost her job etc
 
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A girl that calls you selfish is a girl that's invested in you. Which means her attraction level in you is above half way.

Don't lose that trait dude.
 
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