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That's the message I got after 3 missed calls...
What's the play here?
What's the play here?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
gf says if you dont want anything to do with me tell me, but dont ignore me
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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Not gf....girl...
It's a habit to write gf
It's a habit to write gf
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I was going NC
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Maybe
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
So why do you ask what’s up when you won’t talk to her ?
And that’s your reply to the suggestion to end it…
Before you can deal with a woman, you need to deal with yourself first…
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Just getting ideas bruh....
Brainstorming...
Now if you were to say, I think she wants back...then that would give me an idea...
Or...
Usually it is just words....that gives me other ideas.
Maybe I'm not a big player like you....so this is new territory for me.
Brainstorming...
Now if you were to say, I think she wants back...then that would give me an idea...
Or...
Usually it is just words....that gives me other ideas.
Maybe I'm not a big player like you....so this is new territory for me.
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Until I know more, I'm unsure how to respond.
You mentioned that she was a girlfriend and then followed up by defining her as just a girl.. but then you say that you're going NC (which usually means an ex).
Was she a girl interest, a fling, a date or two girl, girlfriend or an ex (and if an ex, how long where you two together?)
You mentioned that she was a girlfriend and then followed up by defining her as just a girl.. but then you say that you're going NC (which usually means an ex).
Was she a girl interest, a fling, a date or two girl, girlfriend or an ex (and if an ex, how long where you two together?)
taiyuu_otoko
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no contact is a method to help get over a girl and find a new one.
It's not meant to be an attraction increasing strategy.
leave that sleezy shi*t for the ladies.
if you want to see her again, call her and tell her that
if you never want to see her again call her and tell her
Don't reframe your indecision as being some kind of advanced player.
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Thanks guys.
I needed to hear that
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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Note the framing of the accusation:
You are not answering, therefore you don't want anything to do with me.
Normal, balanced people don't make statements like that. They understand there could be a hundred reasons why you are not answering, most of which have nothing to do with her.
She is emotionally bullying you into giving her reassurance and attention. Like a young child crying or having a tantrum for attention.
Very annoying. Best ignored.
You are not answering, therefore you don't want anything to do with me.
Normal, balanced people don't make statements like that. They understand there could be a hundred reasons why you are not answering, most of which have nothing to do with her.
She is emotionally bullying you into giving her reassurance and attention. Like a young child crying or having a tantrum for attention.
Very annoying. Best ignored.
his advice needs to be followed with silence, you cant give her a big man speech then let her sit DM'ing you at 9pm
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....fair enough....
But I haven't been contacting anybody.
Not trying to be a player
But I haven't been contacting anybody.
Not trying to be a player
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Pointless thread, misleading info just like in the last one.