"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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GF says "I think I love you more than you love me''

jadeona13

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For a while now, my girlfriend was saynig to me. I think I like/love you more than you love me. And i kept telling her I love/like her as much, if not more, than she loves/likes me.

Then the other day, she said she was with her mother and her mom said out of the blue, "I think you love him more than he loves you.''

She told me her mother said that and kept asking me about that. She said she would hate it if she liked me more than i liked her.

So I want to know..can this even be a good thing. She will always be trying to win me over or something?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dannyegg4575

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I get that a lot from a lot of my exes. I think it's mostly a test. Which is a good thing because you have the power. You are in control to walk away when necessary instead of her having the options.
Don't give her that option to walk away if she wants to dude. If she does, when someone else better comes along, you're toast.
Next time she says that, you simply smile in content and hug her.
 

KontrollerX

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Its a bullsh!t game and a test.

What you should of done is never of fallen for it and never assured her of your equal love for her.

You should of simply replied "Really? I can't imagine why" or anything else to deflect her little test without you being drawn into her trap and showing your hand ie how much you really care about her which is what the little test was all about.

You can't fall for power plays like this bro.

If a chick wants to know how much she is worth in your eyes she needs to be direct about it to get her answer not vague like this.
 

BMX

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Smile at her and tell her to "PROVE IT!"
 
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