"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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GF says "I think I love you more than you love me''

jadeona13

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For a while now, my girlfriend was saynig to me. I think I like/love you more than you love me. And i kept telling her I love/like her as much, if not more, than she loves/likes me.

Then the other day, she said she was with her mother and her mom said out of the blue, "I think you love him more than he loves you.''

She told me her mother said that and kept asking me about that. She said she would hate it if she liked me more than i liked her.

So I want to know..can this even be a good thing. She will always be trying to win me over or something?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dannyegg4575

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I get that a lot from a lot of my exes. I think it's mostly a test. Which is a good thing because you have the power. You are in control to walk away when necessary instead of her having the options.
Don't give her that option to walk away if she wants to dude. If she does, when someone else better comes along, you're toast.
Next time she says that, you simply smile in content and hug her.
 

KontrollerX

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Its a bullsh!t game and a test.

What you should of done is never of fallen for it and never assured her of your equal love for her.

You should of simply replied "Really? I can't imagine why" or anything else to deflect her little test without you being drawn into her trap and showing your hand ie how much you really care about her which is what the little test was all about.

You can't fall for power plays like this bro.

If a chick wants to know how much she is worth in your eyes she needs to be direct about it to get her answer not vague like this.
 

BMX

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Smile at her and tell her to "PROVE IT!"
 
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