nubian-knight
Don Juan
to sum it up, im not angry at all but i do have a temper when something pisses me off. a my gf of 4 months says i take it out on her and as result says she doesn't want to be with me anymore
she called it quits like 3 weeks ago for that reason too....i said good luck its a shame it dint work out. soon after she told me she knew she wanted me and we wer back on.
then a couple nights ago i was out with some buddies n she drove by and offered us a ride. i was pretty rude to her obv not bcuz of her, kind of yelled and ignored her on the side. then next day she said she dint wana be with me anymore cuz the pattern of me being "really lovable" to "huge *******" at such an inconsistent level fvcked with her head too much
in retrospect i thought about it and she was right in a way, im not nice to her alot of the time and am kind of impulsive.
should i just let her go? i see so many guys on here just saying "NEXT" but ive done that so many times with girls, i feel like ive never really put in any effort to keep something real going on with a girl
she called me today n i told her i wana make things work n we shuld talk about it but she said she fears im just gona be a jerk over and over again.
any general advice? im thinking of just moving on n letting her initiate contact then talking to her reasonably so we can work out something thats good for the 2 of us
she called it quits like 3 weeks ago for that reason too....i said good luck its a shame it dint work out. soon after she told me she knew she wanted me and we wer back on.
then a couple nights ago i was out with some buddies n she drove by and offered us a ride. i was pretty rude to her obv not bcuz of her, kind of yelled and ignored her on the side. then next day she said she dint wana be with me anymore cuz the pattern of me being "really lovable" to "huge *******" at such an inconsistent level fvcked with her head too much
in retrospect i thought about it and she was right in a way, im not nice to her alot of the time and am kind of impulsive.
should i just let her go? i see so many guys on here just saying "NEXT" but ive done that so many times with girls, i feel like ive never really put in any effort to keep something real going on with a girl
she called me today n i told her i wana make things work n we shuld talk about it but she said she fears im just gona be a jerk over and over again.
any general advice? im thinking of just moving on n letting her initiate contact then talking to her reasonably so we can work out something thats good for the 2 of us