"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Gf says I can’t travel for business because she doesn’t trust me

captain55

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occasionally I go to Spain with some of my business partners ... I feel like the fact that all of us are friends helps keep the business relationship on good terms ....my new girlfriend knows that the guys that I travel withAre into partying and have a history of cheating on their significant others. She says if I associate with them she is done. I told her she is controlling and I don’t want to live this way and it ended in a huge fight.

good business partners you can trust don’t come around too often and he is one of them. We can make a **** load of money together and I trust the guy am I being selfish for putting my business before her? I am in my late 20’s
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Augustus_McCrae

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occasionally I go to Spain with some of my business partners ... I feel like the fact that all of us are friends helps keep the business relationship on good terms ....my new girlfriend knows that the guys that I travel withAre into partying and have a history of cheating on their significant others. She says if I associate with them she is done. I told her she is controlling and I don’t want to live this way and it ended in a huge fight.

good business partners you can trust don’t come around too often and he is one of them. We can make a **** load of money together and I trust the guy am I being selfish for putting my business before her? I am in my late 20’s
You’re doing the right thing.

Live your own life man. It’s a **** test. Fvck that. Don’t wind up like Prince Harry.

-Augustus-
 

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“Oh, we are done. Perfect. See ya”

Don’t ever tell her about your partner’s cheating. Never ever.
 

Black Widow Void

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Tell her that "seeking a new associate is the best idea that she's had."
Then... tell her she's fired!

From what you've written, it's not as if you've been previously guilty and in the 'trust re-building' stages.
Instead, this sounds unwarranted. You should never be judged by the actions of others. Only be judged by you own.

This isn't to plant a negative seed or anything, but it's something to possibly consider. A lot of times when we are suspected of wrong doing (without cause) it's actually a projection of the accuser's behavior. Not always, of course, but it's something to think about.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DEEZEDBRAH

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occasionally I go to Spain with some of my business partners ... I feel like the fact that all of us are friends helps keep the business relationship on good terms ....my new girlfriend knows that the guys that I travel withAre into partying and have a history of cheating on their significant others. She says if I associate with them she is done. I told her she is controlling and I don’t want to live this way and it ended in a huge fight.

good business partners you can trust don’t come around too often and he is one of them. We can make a **** load of money together and I trust the guy am I being selfish for putting my business before her? I am in my late 20’s
She says?



you should have put her over your knee and gave her a Spanking.
 
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