"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Gf says I can’t travel for business because she doesn’t trust me

captain55

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occasionally I go to Spain with some of my business partners ... I feel like the fact that all of us are friends helps keep the business relationship on good terms ....my new girlfriend knows that the guys that I travel withAre into partying and have a history of cheating on their significant others. She says if I associate with them she is done. I told her she is controlling and I don’t want to live this way and it ended in a huge fight.

good business partners you can trust don’t come around too often and he is one of them. We can make a **** load of money together and I trust the guy am I being selfish for putting my business before her? I am in my late 20’s
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Augustus_McCrae

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occasionally I go to Spain with some of my business partners ... I feel like the fact that all of us are friends helps keep the business relationship on good terms ....my new girlfriend knows that the guys that I travel withAre into partying and have a history of cheating on their significant others. She says if I associate with them she is done. I told her she is controlling and I don’t want to live this way and it ended in a huge fight.

good business partners you can trust don’t come around too often and he is one of them. We can make a **** load of money together and I trust the guy am I being selfish for putting my business before her? I am in my late 20’s
You’re doing the right thing.

Live your own life man. It’s a **** test. Fvck that. Don’t wind up like Prince Harry.

-Augustus-
 

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“Oh, we are done. Perfect. See ya”

Don’t ever tell her about your partner’s cheating. Never ever.
 

Black Widow Void

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Tell her that "seeking a new associate is the best idea that she's had."
Then... tell her she's fired!

From what you've written, it's not as if you've been previously guilty and in the 'trust re-building' stages.
Instead, this sounds unwarranted. You should never be judged by the actions of others. Only be judged by you own.

This isn't to plant a negative seed or anything, but it's something to possibly consider. A lot of times when we are suspected of wrong doing (without cause) it's actually a projection of the accuser's behavior. Not always, of course, but it's something to think about.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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occasionally I go to Spain with some of my business partners ... I feel like the fact that all of us are friends helps keep the business relationship on good terms ....my new girlfriend knows that the guys that I travel withAre into partying and have a history of cheating on their significant others. She says if I associate with them she is done. I told her she is controlling and I don’t want to live this way and it ended in a huge fight.

good business partners you can trust don’t come around too often and he is one of them. We can make a **** load of money together and I trust the guy am I being selfish for putting my business before her? I am in my late 20’s
She says?



you should have put her over your knee and gave her a Spanking.
 
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