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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Gf ran into old FWB
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
lostintime
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The reason a woman will test you, as a man, is to see if you are fearful.
Based on this thread, your reaction, the assumption, safe to say she see's you as fearful, or at minimum, you see yourself as fearful and that is going to show.
Even before the question, "Did she cheat?" Even before the wonder of where she was... You numb the fear before any of that. She can yell and scream at you, then apologize for doing so later, but only if you do not engage with her emotions.
As a man, you MUST treat all tests a woman gives you, like a child is trying to get your attention, you ignore.
Whether she did cheat or not, who cares, you have a DNA test if it really comes down to it, but point is you can never show that fear of her walking away or cheating, if anything, you sooner be ready to walk away than her... Maintaing respect in this way, yeah in the short term its not going to be good for you, but later on when you see these women, they will speak well about you, because you left them, thus, they see you as high value.
Always leave a woman on good terms... A cosign of a woman, in the eyes of another woman, for a man, is invaluable.
Based on this thread, your reaction, the assumption, safe to say she see's you as fearful, or at minimum, you see yourself as fearful and that is going to show.
Even before the question, "Did she cheat?" Even before the wonder of where she was... You numb the fear before any of that. She can yell and scream at you, then apologize for doing so later, but only if you do not engage with her emotions.
As a man, you MUST treat all tests a woman gives you, like a child is trying to get your attention, you ignore.
Whether she did cheat or not, who cares, you have a DNA test if it really comes down to it, but point is you can never show that fear of her walking away or cheating, if anything, you sooner be ready to walk away than her... Maintaing respect in this way, yeah in the short term its not going to be good for you, but later on when you see these women, they will speak well about you, because you left them, thus, they see you as high value.
Always leave a woman on good terms... A cosign of a woman, in the eyes of another woman, for a man, is invaluable.