"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LegendBoy

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Okay my gf has myspace. She talks to guys on there. Occasionally she adds a guy she seens around that don't know her. I get don't like her ading guys she don't know.

How can I make her not do that?

I dont want **** like be a man.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ConantheLibertarian

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Take away her computer privileges :D. Seriously there's a similar thread on page 2 about this, stop being so damn insecure. Is she not allowed to chat with some guys online? Trust that she won't do anything with these guys, which I doubt she will. But if she does, your insecurity will have played a role, then you can dump her.
 

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LegendBoy said:
I dont want **** like be a man.
Then there is no solution.

Are you the guy that got all pissy about something like this? Or are you the guy that called up some other chick to chat to while she's busy on MySpace?

Also, why don't you try MySpace out too? I hear it's easy as hell to score chicks from.
 

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That's a major Red Flag. Dump her.

My LTR doesn't have male friends, no MySpace and doesn't go to clubs.
Just the way it should be. what would you have to deal with all that bullsh*t?
 

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Hey there LegendBoy. I know where you're coming from- I used to have bouts of insecurity as well.

But honestly, the best method is not to "fix" your GF (ie. make her stop talking to random guys on myspace), but to fix yourself.

Step back from your jealousy for a moment and see where you're coming from- do you have any how much of an insecure, female dog you're being?!?! She's chatting with people on myspace, great! Before you know it, she'll be giving guys blow jobs in your toilet.

I know at first, it feels like that, but we really have to step back from our mental "apocalypse" projections, and be a little more rational. Chances are, you'll never meet a girl without a male friend or two. Heres the way I see it:

If you wanna have a hot girlfriend (and you do, right?), then you gotta accept the fact that guys will be hitting on her. If you're too much of a wuss to handle that, then find yourself a fat, ugly hag for a GF (and even then, there are some pretty DESPERATE men out there!)

Blusher said: "That's a major Red Flag. Dump her.
My LTR doesn't have male friends, no MySpace and doesn't go to clubs.
Just the way it should be. what would you have to deal with all that bullsh*t?"

I believe that's just insecurity on your part Blusher. You know the ancient Chinese tradition of bound feet? They bound the feet of married women so they couldn't run away from home and cheat. Male insecurity at its greatest. Obviously, I've never met you so I don't know, but thats just what I see coming from your post.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sir Juanalot

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Blusher said:
That's a major Red Flag. Dump her.

My LTR doesn't have male friends, no MySpace and doesn't go to clubs.
Just the way it should be. what would you have to deal with all that bullsh*t?
Do you have a box you lock her in when you go to work as well :confused: :down:
 

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you add every hot chick you can find and have them leave you flinty comments.
make her jealous.
 

girl_in_a_boy_forum

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Your girlfriend isn't allowed to have online friends? Jeez, what else isn't she allowed to do? Get over your insecurity and stop being so paranoid. If you're afraid of your ability to keep her, improve yourself until you've gained that confidence. If you're afraid of her loyalty to you, build that bond until it's no longer an issue.
 

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girl_in_a_boy_forum, dumb down your grammar or you are going to intimidate alot of guys on here. Our skills only work on dumb girls.

Of course, some of us true Jedi Masters can get the smart ones too ;)
 

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I believe that's just insecurity on your part Blusher.
Actually, I never asked her that much. She just didn't have male friends before we met as she didn't believe Men and Women could be friends without ulterior motives. So that was just a given.

As for going out to clubs, it's simply not her thing. She enjoys going for a drink on a terrace with her friends or have dinner with them.

It just makes life a lot easier and to be frank I don't miss a girlfriend who gets phone calls from her new male friend.

This is just really smooth when you don't have to deal with that sort of crap.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Listen here kid - you are no one special - you are just a life-form with a penis, amongst many penis life-forms!!! In other words - you are no one special - you are merely the next pimp in line!!!
 
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Legendboy - you are a looking for a "different type of woman - she is not what you are looking for - move on and do as she does -- look for other possibilities - don't be a fool!!!!
 

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Last Man Standing said:
Listen here kid - you are no one special - you are just a life-form with a penis, amongst many penis life-forms!!! In other words - you are no one special - you are merely the next pimp in line!!!
You seriously have major issues with pimps and penis' man, like you really do. Me thinks your pimp daddy hasnt given you your monthly bit(hslap.

In other words if you havnt got anything constructive to say keep your old limp tird a55 infront of the pc screen wanking off to granny porn and leave the getting hot honeys to us OK.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Well is this the only thing she has done in your relationship thats bothered you?
 

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LegendBoy said:
Occasionally she adds a guy she seens around that don't know her. I get don't like her ading guys she don't know.
That would piss me off too.
 

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I told her to take his fag i was gonna fight (couple of years ago)off her top friends.. She didn't and said there good friends.

Whatever trevor
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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