"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Off the phone she's submissive and all is gd.

But when she starts texting its a different story.

She constantly reframes and **** tests everything I reply to lower my value

I have stuck it out and it's just a long winded convo of reframing on every response

I have ignored but then she just keeps texting soppy stuff so much so that she then asks a question, i cant ignore 10+ msgs and all her questions else she gonna feel too rejected. I answer then she reframes. Even a simple "thanks babe" to a love text

Most of the time I just stop texting her.

Me: "Thanks"
she reframes it
Her: "Dont worry I didn't think u we're capable of much more words, luv u"
Me: ...
Her: The banter is too much it's ok
I then ignore, and it now looks like it effected me, wen really I'm just bored of it

I know she's playing but still, it gets annoying and I'm losing attraction for her now

Advice guys
 
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Are you seriously reacting to that? Obviously you're sensitive, brush it off, that shlt doesn't bother you
 
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Daily Insanity said:
Are you seriously reacting to that? Obviously you're sensitive, brush it off, that shlt doesn't bother you
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It bothers me wen I'm getting bored of it.

How would you handle it then
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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Then beat her at her own game:

Me: "Thanks"
she reframes it
Her: "Dont worry I didn't think u we're capable of much more words, luv u"
Me: "You're gonna have to earn those words ;) love you too"

You can probably come up with better examples
 
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ARrocket said:
Then beat her at her own game:

Me: "Thanks"
she reframes it
Her: "Dont worry I didn't think u we're capable of much more words, luv u"
Me: "You're gonna have to earn those words ;) love you too"

You can probably come up with better examples
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She will reframe that, as said its constant. She will just keep replying then you ignore and feels like you have lost hand everytime. Shes ruthless at it. This also gives her more attention then normal, so I'm rewarding her by reframing back. Yet if I don't I lose hand.
 
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Mauser96 said:
The answer is staring you in the face. Reduce your texting to setting up plans to meet and get together, only.
Problem solved.
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When she is away on holiday or too see family how to handle that, she obviously going to want a response from her BF. She knows i text everyone else.
 
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Why don't you give her some serious c0ck to make her shut up for a month.
 

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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

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PapiChulo said:
Why don't you give her some serious c0ck to make her shut up for a month.
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This answer solves your problem.

Dude, obviously you let her get away with having the pants in the relationship. You're reacting to what I call a chicks power fit through texting. You're letting her get away with this even though it bothers you.


And dont listen to "play her own game", that crap works for the dating scene not a relationship. Comon guys.

Here's what to do.
Confront her and explain to her why it's bothring you. Once or twice it's cute but too many time's it get's annoying and you need to put your manly foot down.

If the girl doesn't care or laughs at this, you give her the talk.
"obviously you dont understand the machanics of a relationship" turn around and walk away, dont explain yourself.

If the girl agrees to your sensitive side, problem solved.

This is obviously what YOU wanted to hear.

What I would do?

PapiChulo said:
Why don't you give her some serious c0ck to make her shut up for a month.
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