“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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GF over text is constantly ****y

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Off the phone she's submissive and all is gd.

But when she starts texting its a different story.

She constantly reframes and **** tests everything I reply to lower my value

I have stuck it out and it's just a long winded convo of reframing on every response

I have ignored but then she just keeps texting soppy stuff so much so that she then asks a question, i cant ignore 10+ msgs and all her questions else she gonna feel too rejected. I answer then she reframes. Even a simple "thanks babe" to a love text

Most of the time I just stop texting her.

Me: "Thanks"
she reframes it
Her: "Dont worry I didn't think u we're capable of much more words, luv u"
Me: ...
Her: The banter is too much it's ok
I then ignore, and it now looks like it effected me, wen really I'm just bored of it

I know she's playing but still, it gets annoying and I'm losing attraction for her now

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Are you seriously reacting to that? Obviously you're sensitive, brush it off, that shlt doesn't bother you
 
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Daily Insanity said:
Are you seriously reacting to that? Obviously you're sensitive, brush it off, that shlt doesn't bother you
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It bothers me wen I'm getting bored of it.

How would you handle it then
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Then beat her at her own game:

Me: "Thanks"
she reframes it
Her: "Dont worry I didn't think u we're capable of much more words, luv u"
Me: "You're gonna have to earn those words ;) love you too"

You can probably come up with better examples
 
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ARrocket said:
Then beat her at her own game:

Me: "Thanks"
she reframes it
Her: "Dont worry I didn't think u we're capable of much more words, luv u"
Me: "You're gonna have to earn those words ;) love you too"

You can probably come up with better examples
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She will reframe that, as said its constant. She will just keep replying then you ignore and feels like you have lost hand everytime. Shes ruthless at it. This also gives her more attention then normal, so I'm rewarding her by reframing back. Yet if I don't I lose hand.
 
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Mauser96 said:
The answer is staring you in the face. Reduce your texting to setting up plans to meet and get together, only.
Problem solved.
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When she is away on holiday or too see family how to handle that, she obviously going to want a response from her BF. She knows i text everyone else.
 
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Why don't you give her some serious c0ck to make her shut up for a month.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PapiChulo said:
Why don't you give her some serious c0ck to make her shut up for a month.
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This answer solves your problem.

Dude, obviously you let her get away with having the pants in the relationship. You're reacting to what I call a chicks power fit through texting. You're letting her get away with this even though it bothers you.


And dont listen to "play her own game", that crap works for the dating scene not a relationship. Comon guys.

Here's what to do.
Confront her and explain to her why it's bothring you. Once or twice it's cute but too many time's it get's annoying and you need to put your manly foot down.

If the girl doesn't care or laughs at this, you give her the talk.
"obviously you dont understand the machanics of a relationship" turn around and walk away, dont explain yourself.

If the girl agrees to your sensitive side, problem solved.

This is obviously what YOU wanted to hear.

What I would do?

PapiChulo said:
Why don't you give her some serious c0ck to make her shut up for a month.
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