"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Gf On Myspace..

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For those of you know what myspace is, my gf left a bulletin like this. What the fvck is this about man????


no matter what i do, all i think about is you

even when im with my boo.

boy you know im crazy over you...

why is it that life is so complicated and it's always the emotional songs that relate to you...

ARGH

Worth noting her dad died when she was younga.. But I doubt its that. We only been together for a few weeks two. But why would a girl so publicly display this on a myspace bulletin, she obviously wanted me to see it correct? So what d fvck does it mean???
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's a song.

Nelly and Kelly Rowland - Dilemma

Maybe it's her favorite one. Ask her about her favorite music and maybe you'll find out.
 
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why is it that life is so complicated and it's always the emotional songs that relate to you...--- watabout this part- could it possibly be about her dad that died??
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Break up as fast as possible... its going to be a long ****ed up ride.
 
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You're definitely overreacting.

Even if she was seeing someone else, or falling for someone else, at 16 years old that's what girls do.

Just have fun with her and talk to other girls too. What's the point of you sticking loyal and/or trying to control her actions if she's going to be different by the time she's your age anyway?
 
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Actually, I don't think you're necessarily overreacting. People don't put up lyrics to a song just because they like the song/beat/melody. They talk about it because the words themeselves resonate with them. Now, it could be about the dad or some other guy, so just keep your eyes open, and don't get too caught up with a girl who's this young.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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its a **** test. shes trying to find out if you are really the real deal confidence wise. she'll know you are not if you confront her. pretend it never happened, and if it turns out shes cheating then have the strength to next her
 
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