"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Gf On Myspace..

LegendBoy

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For those of you know what myspace is, my gf left a bulletin like this. What the fvck is this about man????


no matter what i do, all i think about is you

even when im with my boo.

boy you know im crazy over you...

why is it that life is so complicated and it's always the emotional songs that relate to you...

ARGH

Worth noting her dad died when she was younga.. But I doubt its that. We only been together for a few weeks two. But why would a girl so publicly display this on a myspace bulletin, she obviously wanted me to see it correct? So what d fvck does it mean???
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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tick37

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It's a song.

Nelly and Kelly Rowland - Dilemma

Maybe it's her favorite one. Ask her about her favorite music and maybe you'll find out.
 

LegendBoy

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why is it that life is so complicated and it's always the emotional songs that relate to you...--- watabout this part- could it possibly be about her dad that died??
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bonafide

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Break up as fast as possible... its going to be a long ****ed up ride.
 

wjh

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You're definitely overreacting.

Even if she was seeing someone else, or falling for someone else, at 16 years old that's what girls do.

Just have fun with her and talk to other girls too. What's the point of you sticking loyal and/or trying to control her actions if she's going to be different by the time she's your age anyway?
 

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Actually, I don't think you're necessarily overreacting. People don't put up lyrics to a song just because they like the song/beat/melody. They talk about it because the words themeselves resonate with them. Now, it could be about the dad or some other guy, so just keep your eyes open, and don't get too caught up with a girl who's this young.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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mr.uk

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its a **** test. shes trying to find out if you are really the real deal confidence wise. she'll know you are not if you confront her. pretend it never happened, and if it turns out shes cheating then have the strength to next her
 
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