"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Gf never initiates hanging out

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Yet texts me a lot of I miss you texts, can't wait too see you...ect. On average she texts me 2.5 to my 1 text, never says no when I tell her we meeting up, if not she makes an alternative. So i doubt it an intrest level issue.

If I leave it, she just sends more i miss you texts, untill I initiate again.

Any advice guys?
 

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She's a woman. By nature they are indecisive and fickle. Of course she won't text you to hang out with you. It's up to you to be the man and assert yourself and hang out with her. If it bothers you, get rid of her, but good luck trying to find a woman that actually initiates hanging out. :up:
 

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Most likely this girl isn't very assertive and a non assertive person isn't going to make arrangements. As long as she isn't blowing you off then I'd say you have little to worry about. In a way telling you she misses you is her way of telling you she wants to hang out.
 
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