Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Gf makes stupid remark

Right_Mindset

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today while i was with my gf we saw a news regarding how much sex per week a couple would usually have, anyway i said on a funny way that we should have a much more active sex life and do it more times (not that we dont have much, but i want do do it multiple times per day).
Her reply was : Yeah i know we dont do that much we have it when i let (something along those lines) . My mind was in shock not that this is any suprise but she admitting it, My reply was oh yeah one of this days ill go on Strike and said this on a funny way. wich she replyed oh baby dont be upset we dont do it more because i want you to be vigorous when we have it.

Anyway the truth is my Gf completly dominates the sex in the relationship and im always the one initating it. how can i change tables?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What's worse, her remark or that you are putting up with it? Either play her game and pull completely back or go find someone you are sexually compatable with.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
What's worse, her remark or that you are putting up with it? Either play her game and pull completely back or go find someone you are sexually compatable with.
Besides that issue she has really, been love and caring and cant complain her IL is high , anyway im keeping other options open , and trying to get some FB on the side.

So dumping for now its not a option , whats the best way to change tables, if im unable to do it i will consider dumping her
 
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What the hell is a hor for if you can't have sex when you want??? Men dictate and the women follows!!! A wife is obligated to please her man - but I guess a hor can do as she wishes, as long as you put up with it!
 

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Its not like she`s depriving me of sex , we have it like once a day if we have the chance, i just want to regain some power regarding sex. Im im pondering a FB and keep my options open. as i said on a previous post
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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