"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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today while i was with my gf we saw a news regarding how much sex per week a couple would usually have, anyway i said on a funny way that we should have a much more active sex life and do it more times (not that we dont have much, but i want do do it multiple times per day).
Her reply was : Yeah i know we dont do that much we have it when i let (something along those lines) . My mind was in shock not that this is any suprise but she admitting it, My reply was oh yeah one of this days ill go on Strike and said this on a funny way. wich she replyed oh baby dont be upset we dont do it more because i want you to be vigorous when we have it.

Anyway the truth is my Gf completly dominates the sex in the relationship and im always the one initating it. how can i change tables?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What's worse, her remark or that you are putting up with it? Either play her game and pull completely back or go find someone you are sexually compatable with.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
What's worse, her remark or that you are putting up with it? Either play her game and pull completely back or go find someone you are sexually compatable with.
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Besides that issue she has really, been love and caring and cant complain her IL is high , anyway im keeping other options open , and trying to get some FB on the side.

So dumping for now its not a option , whats the best way to change tables, if im unable to do it i will consider dumping her
 
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What the hell is a hor for if you can't have sex when you want??? Men dictate and the women follows!!! A wife is obligated to please her man - but I guess a hor can do as she wishes, as long as you put up with it!
 
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Its not like she`s depriving me of sex , we have it like once a day if we have the chance, i just want to regain some power regarding sex. Im im pondering a FB and keep my options open. as i said on a previous post
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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