gf keeps pressing my "feelings"

[tryin 2 play]

I have ben with my current girl for 3 months. We were just "seeing eachother" for two of those months, and the last month we have been exclusive. In the past we have talked about what we think of eachother. I admitted tha I did like her alot (after she admitted it first).

However, i think she wants to hear me say "I love you", which i have not said yet. She seems to be beating around the bush about the topic. Sometimes she will say things like "well i know that you like me, but i dont know how you FEEL about me, you never tell me, so i dont know how you FEEL".

Online or in texts, she is constantly sending little hearts and girly sh!t like that. When I am with her or talking to her, it seems that she is in ove with me, or at least falling for me. I can tell by hear actions and ow she looks at me. I am starting to feel those feelings of love for her, but its not fully there. Do you think she may lose interest if i do not say it soon? Could this cause a problem?

ps. She has admitted before that she never makes the first move about anything...its the guys job she says. She would never go for the first kiss, ask to be exsclusive, or say i love you with out the guy saying it for the first time. She's weird like that, saying she doesn't want to put her self out there. Well neither do i lol!!

Any suggestions? Should i jus wait? or will this cause problems seeing as she is my gf, we are exsclusive and spend time together etc...?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Your girl needs reassurance in one form or another. Saying those three words would easily fix the situation but it could backfire on you if you aren't being truthful. There's other things you can say or do to help reassure her, something on the lines of that you dig her and are willing to see where things go.

 

[ObieJuan]

Like Francisco said I think she needs reassurance but if you ask me it sounds as though she is going to become very clingy, quite possibly in the near future. 3 months is not a lot of time to be acting like that. Be direct with her and explain that you haven't known her long enough and mention that being in love is not something to be thrown around lightly. This sounds like high school, lol. Anyway just try to spend time and enjoy yourself around her- saying "I love you" is probably going to make it much worse because she is seeking validation and is infatuated with you. Be careful

 

[tryin 2 play]

Yea I am really not ready to say i love you yet. I'm really into her, but idont kow if it is love yet. She is a little clingy, wants to see me every single day. Thankfully i am pretty busy and cant see her every day, but i do chill with her a lot. I am enjoying her very much.

If she brings up anything about love i will say what you guys said, until then i will keep my mouth shut. I'm just wondering whats going on here with all the questions about my feelings, all of a sudden hearts are every where haha(text, AIM, etc...)

 

[Hitman10000]

Too soon to tell, if you said it's been 9 months then that might be love but at this early stage it's not. Don't be fooled even if that's what she's feeling now.