Alright fellas,
Need some advice. Real quick 411. The Gf and I been dating a yr now. Things going well from what I can tell. She tells me she loves me and misses me every other day or few days. She tells me I changed the way she thinks about things in her life and she believes in serendipity (fate brought us together). We spend the entire weekends together and one or two weekdays with each other, nookie 2-3 times a week. We planned a trip to Miami next month. She’s turning 30 this year and said she would like to take a trip with me somewhere to celebrate in the middle of the year.
However she isn’t happy with anything in her life. She doesn’t like her job, where she lives, etc. A high maintenance woman (I guess this is what you get when you date a attractive woman.).
She recently told me she made her facebook page private so only her close friends can see what she is doing. She removed her status (single, relationship, married) to keep noisy people out of her life, etc, etc. so everyone doesn’t need to know what she’s doing. I don’t have facebook nor do I care to get facebook.
She said in efforts to look for another job she wants to network/socialize more and put herself out there (woman’s groups, young professionals group). She invited myself and a friend of mine to a young professionals group with her to network with her.
Should I be worried about this girl, she never seems happy recently? There are some things that I want to say to her like why did you remove your status from fb (yes this might be a insecurity issue of mine)? The other thing I want to say is are you ever going to be happy with your life? I would think a 30 yr old woman is chomping at the bit to settle down. Do you guys think these things are big deals or am I blowing things way out of proportion (like, the fb issue)? Input on how to handles these type of issues, please!
Need some advice. Real quick 411. The Gf and I been dating a yr now. Things going well from what I can tell. She tells me she loves me and misses me every other day or few days. She tells me I changed the way she thinks about things in her life and she believes in serendipity (fate brought us together). We spend the entire weekends together and one or two weekdays with each other, nookie 2-3 times a week. We planned a trip to Miami next month. She’s turning 30 this year and said she would like to take a trip with me somewhere to celebrate in the middle of the year.
However she isn’t happy with anything in her life. She doesn’t like her job, where she lives, etc. A high maintenance woman (I guess this is what you get when you date a attractive woman.).
She recently told me she made her facebook page private so only her close friends can see what she is doing. She removed her status (single, relationship, married) to keep noisy people out of her life, etc, etc. so everyone doesn’t need to know what she’s doing. I don’t have facebook nor do I care to get facebook.
She said in efforts to look for another job she wants to network/socialize more and put herself out there (woman’s groups, young professionals group). She invited myself and a friend of mine to a young professionals group with her to network with her.
Should I be worried about this girl, she never seems happy recently? There are some things that I want to say to her like why did you remove your status from fb (yes this might be a insecurity issue of mine)? The other thing I want to say is are you ever going to be happy with your life? I would think a 30 yr old woman is chomping at the bit to settle down. Do you guys think these things are big deals or am I blowing things way out of proportion (like, the fb issue)? Input on how to handles these type of issues, please!