"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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GF is on an internship till December?

Sgthaytham

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Things have been going well recently: she sent me a message on Monday morning saying thanks to me for being patient and if I was interested in some dinner with a couple friends.

Anyway, she’s on an internship till December - this is something she had planned since before we got together.

We won’t be seeing eachother much.

I think I can get through it.

I told her i understood she would be very busy and to get in touch if her schedule freed up and we could organise something.

Do you think I should wait till she gets in touch with me?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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soulforge

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Yeh don't be chasing man.. If her interest level is high, she will stay in touch with you.

Don't come across as being needy.. Keep yourself busy, hit the gym, hobbies etc.. Maybe smash some other chicks lol

Its always a risk when your girl goes away for months.. So be prepared.

Best thing to do is let her do most of the texting, but don't go to the EXTREME and become totally unavailable.

Find a balance
 

Sgthaytham

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Yeh don't be chasing man.. If her interest level is high, she will stay in touch with you.

Don't come across as being needy.. Keep yourself busy, hit the gym, hobbies etc.. Maybe smash some other chicks lol

Its always a risk when your girl goes away for months.. So be prepared.

Best thing to do is let her do most of the texting, but don't go to the EXTREME and become totally unavailable.

Find a balance
I agree with everything you’ve said, except hooking up with other girls. That’s cheating.

I know she needs space right now...

She’s not a very expressive girl, especially in public, so I don’t expect her to be making moves on me when we’re out and about.

She does do a lot of things to show she actually cares though.

Anyway, she’s really, really busy right now so I will let her get in touch.
 

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Not a fan of LDR. Hope for the best but prepare for the worst. You don't have to cheat if u dont want to but keep your options open, like female orbiters haha
 
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