“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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GF is on an internship till December?

Sgthaytham

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Things have been going well recently: she sent me a message on Monday morning saying thanks to me for being patient and if I was interested in some dinner with a couple friends.

Anyway, she’s on an internship till December - this is something she had planned since before we got together.

We won’t be seeing eachother much.

I think I can get through it.

I told her i understood she would be very busy and to get in touch if her schedule freed up and we could organise something.

Do you think I should wait till she gets in touch with me?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

soulforge

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Yeh don't be chasing man.. If her interest level is high, she will stay in touch with you.

Don't come across as being needy.. Keep yourself busy, hit the gym, hobbies etc.. Maybe smash some other chicks lol

Its always a risk when your girl goes away for months.. So be prepared.

Best thing to do is let her do most of the texting, but don't go to the EXTREME and become totally unavailable.

Find a balance
 

Sgthaytham

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Yeh don't be chasing man.. If her interest level is high, she will stay in touch with you.

Don't come across as being needy.. Keep yourself busy, hit the gym, hobbies etc.. Maybe smash some other chicks lol

Its always a risk when your girl goes away for months.. So be prepared.

Best thing to do is let her do most of the texting, but don't go to the EXTREME and become totally unavailable.

Find a balance
I agree with everything you’ve said, except hooking up with other girls. That’s cheating.

I know she needs space right now...

She’s not a very expressive girl, especially in public, so I don’t expect her to be making moves on me when we’re out and about.

She does do a lot of things to show she actually cares though.

Anyway, she’s really, really busy right now so I will let her get in touch.
 

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Not a fan of LDR. Hope for the best but prepare for the worst. You don't have to cheat if u dont want to but keep your options open, like female orbiters haha
 
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