"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Gf is mad because she lost her watch. Says is my fault

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So there's this very nice smash and dash motel on the main avenue on the way to my girlfriends house which we go to bang when we get horny at the end of a date.

Today I woke up and checked my phone. There was a text from her saying she is very mad. We talked over the phone and she told me she can't find her favorite and most expensive watch. She says she is almost certain that she wore it friday march 31.

That day we went to the movies and then on the way to her house we stoped for a bang session at said very nice motel. She says she must have taken her watch off after banging to get into the shower and forgot it there. She called the place on the phone but obviously nobody has reported a forgotten watch.

She says she is very mad about the watch and that it's my fault. I told her that I understand that she is mad But that it's not my fault she forgot it. She's also saying she never wants to ever go to a motel/hotel with me again (guess I'll never take her on vacations haha).

Let me know what would you do in this case and give me advice on how to handle this.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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El Payaso

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There's nothing much you can do. Tell her that you're sorry she lost her watch but you didn't lose it for her. She simply forgot it and if she wants to be mad over you for that then that's on her and there's nothing you can do about it.

You've made your "apology" about it so anytime she brings it up. Just tell her "Well, like I said, it's sad you lost your watch but it wasn't my fault" and don't talk about it again. If she keeps hammering about it, say "It seems like you're really stuck on blaming me for the loss of you watch. I'll give you some space to keep blaming me for it" and walk away.
 

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There's nothing much you can do. Tell her that you're sorry she lost her watch but you didn't lose it for her. She simply forgot it and if she wants to be mad over you for that then that's on her and there's nothing you can do about it.

You've made your "apology" about it so anytime she brings it up. Just tell her "Well, like I said, it's sad you lost your watch but it wasn't my fault" and don't talk about it again. If she keeps hammering about it, say "It seems like you're really stuck on blaming me for the loss of you watch. I'll give you some space to keep blaming me for it" and walk away.
This^^&
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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