"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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GF in contact with her ex

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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well, I've been the ex. She would text me with some lame assed reason to see me{when she was mad at him} and f&ck me silly.... while she was living with him.... in fact engaged to him.... it hasn't happened since they got married... BUT she still talks to me about him, like she's looking to move on and Divorce him. In fact, she's said so.... in 2 years, when her daughter is 18.....

Not sure how much of it I would put up with, but YMMV....
 
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In the text convo that you shared, the guy is being a super AFC. He confesses his undying feelings for her and she very clearly says that there's no chance of them getting back together. She even sends him a picture of you. Haha, ouch!

You're the alpha while he's the friend-zoned chump... and you want to break up with her? I don't know, man. I don't think she's being particularly disrespectful. It also sounds like they are no longer in communication.

The human brain - specifically yours - is a funny thing. There appears to be no current problem. You learned about something that was happening months ago and it just feels like it's happening in the present because you're all wrapped up in it now. So if you want to go ahead and break up with her because she told her chump ex-boyfriend he couldn't have her months ago, that would... be an odd reason to dump somebody.
 
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