"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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GF hangs out with guy so much...

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illmatic1005

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my gf is always hanging around with a guy on her block...

From what i see and know, they are only friends and nothing more...but they do play fight and she playfully bites him and stuff...
He is kinda ugly but i always thnik that maybe they do stuff together ,,even tho they just flirt and play fight and stuff..but nothing sexual or whatever

and like just a little while ago she wanted to hang out but i couldnt ,,so now they are hanging out jsut the 2 of them

i dont think that they do anything and are ONLY friends, but could i get some advice?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HolyG

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Option A - Fight fire with fire
Hang out with a girl friend, make sure your gf sees you around her. Then claim "we're just friends"

Option B - Call her out
Tell her to stop cause you think it's disrespectful, and if she doesn't....dump the ho.
 
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illmatic1005 said:
my gf is always hanging around with a guy on her block...

From what i see and know, they are only friends and nothing more...but they do play fight and she playfully bites him and stuff...
He is kinda ugly but i always thnik that maybe they do stuff together ,,even tho they just flirt and play fight and stuff..but nothing sexual or whatever

and like just a little while ago she wanted to hang out but i couldnt ,,so now they are hanging out jsut the 2 of them

i dont think that they do anything and are ONLY friends, but could i get some advice?
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I just passed by just browsing and came in here. Ill give you some real life advice. Either dump her or stay with her and then find out later on that the guy "Friend" was feeling on her cooch so she now thinks "I need time to myself". im Warning you and anyone who has experience with this situation will tell you the SAME thing. Dont say i didnt warn you.
 
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Did you know she had this "friend" before getting involved with her?
 
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Lord Shinra

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Option A - Fight fire with fire
Hang out with a girl friend, make sure your gf sees you around her. Then claim "we're just friends"
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Thats what I've done before. Seems to work.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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