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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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GF hangs out with guy so much...

illmatic1005

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my gf is always hanging around with a guy on her block...

From what i see and know, they are only friends and nothing more...but they do play fight and she playfully bites him and stuff...
He is kinda ugly but i always thnik that maybe they do stuff together ,,even tho they just flirt and play fight and stuff..but nothing sexual or whatever

and like just a little while ago she wanted to hang out but i couldnt ,,so now they are hanging out jsut the 2 of them

i dont think that they do anything and are ONLY friends, but could i get some advice?
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

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Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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HolyG

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Option A - Fight fire with fire
Hang out with a girl friend, make sure your gf sees you around her. Then claim "we're just friends"

Option B - Call her out
Tell her to stop cause you think it's disrespectful, and if she doesn't....dump the ho.
 

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illmatic1005 said:
my gf is always hanging around with a guy on her block...

From what i see and know, they are only friends and nothing more...but they do play fight and she playfully bites him and stuff...
He is kinda ugly but i always thnik that maybe they do stuff together ,,even tho they just flirt and play fight and stuff..but nothing sexual or whatever

and like just a little while ago she wanted to hang out but i couldnt ,,so now they are hanging out jsut the 2 of them

i dont think that they do anything and are ONLY friends, but could i get some advice?
I just passed by just browsing and came in here. Ill give you some real life advice. Either dump her or stay with her and then find out later on that the guy "Friend" was feeling on her cooch so she now thinks "I need time to myself". im Warning you and anyone who has experience with this situation will tell you the SAME thing. Dont say i didnt warn you.
 

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Did you know she had this "friend" before getting involved with her?
 

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Option A - Fight fire with fire
Hang out with a girl friend, make sure your gf sees you around her. Then claim "we're just friends"
Thats what I've done before. Seems to work.
 

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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

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Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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