"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Gf Gone On Hoilday 4 2 Weeks

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My gf is gone on hoilday for 2 weeks its been 4 days since and i miss her loads

she must miss me even more like crazy

i try and keep my head off her and do other things but from time to time i think about her and i miss her

Not coz im gay Becuz i really do miss her

I know her and shes not the cheating, but i dont trust women at all even the ones who seem to be perfect or different are hoes?

Explain

I will sarge more girls but why do i have this strange feeling like i dont need to knowing that i got sumthing that i like already!!!

and beeing true to her is what i want which is so ****ing gay but i aint ****ing gay?

Thats It!!!

!!!BANG!!!

No i am still alive but my **** miss,s her too its so soft right now!!!

seeeeeeeeeeeeesh help!!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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lordson

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okay you miss her.

how long have you been going out for

who she gone on holiday with and where
 
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3countriesPlan

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my gf going on holiday to.. holidays can be a good way of letting her have some fun.. and a good chance for you to go out with friends more and party like college again!
 
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five star post
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Purple-Haze

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StoneCold said:
My gf is gone on hoilday for 2 weeks its been 4 days since and i miss her loads

she must miss me even more like crazy

i try and keep my head off her and do other things but from time to time i think about her and i miss her

Not coz im gay Becuz i really do miss her

I know her and shes not the cheating, but i dont trust women at all even the ones who seem to be perfect or different are hoes?

Explain

I will sarge more girls but why do i have this strange feeling like i dont need to knowing that i got sumthing that i like already!!!

and beeing true to her is what i want which is so ****ing gay but i aint ****ing gay?

Thats It!!!

!!!BANG!!!

No i am still alive but my **** miss,s her too its so soft right now!!!

seeeeeeeeeeeeesh help!!!
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Since when did missing your SO become a "gay" thing? You shouldn't have to explain your feelings like that (especially not on an online forum).

It's perfectly OK to miss her.
 
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Prodigy746

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Why does it seem like you have no other firends besides this girl. I wonder what would happen if she suddenly broke up with you...would you commit suicide?? You need to go out with your friends and have some fun.
 
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lordson

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my girlfriend went away on holiday this week, and so far, i've been cathching up with my old mates alot

use it as an opportunity
 
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DoctorLW

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2 weeks is nothing. It'll be over before you know it. Just enjoy yourself in the meantime.
 
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Definately.

TBH if you can't go for that long without her then you've got much bigger problems. Man up or in 2 weeks we'll be having to give you advice on how to handle being dumped.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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EricInTheHouse

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I think you'll make it dude, and this thing about her cheating on you...well looks like a trust issue, and That is one of the major things for a good relationship...trust. The other one is communication, and I think you should discuss this with her.

I wish I had a GF even to miss, lol
 
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You've made this woman the center of your life and now your feeling the side effects of her being gone. Personally, I think you should get rid of this girl and work on yourself because you're not ready for it.

You need to find completeness in who you are and not find that completeness from some woman. What the hell are you going to do if she walks out of your life? I hope you don't commit suicide. There is no guarantee she will stay.

I see nothing wrong with missing someone, but your's is unhealthy and all consuming.
 
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young_gun

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You miss A GIRL?? You're so gay.

LOL
 
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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Well you miss her alot. But, does she miss you? Maybe she will end up fvcking other guys while your act home actn like a b!tch...
 
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You've made this woman the center of your life and now your feeling the side effects of her being gone. Personally, I think you should get rid of this girl and work on yourself because you're not ready for it.

You need to find completeness in who you are and not find that completeness from some woman. What the hell are you going to do if she walks out of your life? I hope you don't commit suicide. There is no guarantee she will stay.

I see nothing wrong with missing someone, but your's is unhealthy and all consuming.
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Spot on. You're letting your relationship define your value as a person. Co-dependency to this degree is unhealthy, and I speak from experience. Even if she is loyal and you have nothing to worry about, a relationship like this is doomed, IMO.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wow, is this a joke? It looks like a youtube comment!

I will sarge more girls but why do i have this strange feeling like i dont need to knowing that i got sumthing that i like already!!!

and beeing true to her is what i want which is so ****ing gay but i aint ****ing gay?
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Amazing stuff, I love it :up:
 
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young_gun

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If you mean "being true to her" as in referring to being exclusive to your girlfrend, you have some serious growing up to do. Don't cheat on your girlfriend. If you don't want her to cheat on you, don't do it to her.
 
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