"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Gf Gone On Hoilday 4 2 Weeks

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My gf is gone on hoilday for 2 weeks its been 4 days since and i miss her loads

she must miss me even more like crazy

i try and keep my head off her and do other things but from time to time i think about her and i miss her

Not coz im gay Becuz i really do miss her

I know her and shes not the cheating, but i dont trust women at all even the ones who seem to be perfect or different are hoes?

Explain

I will sarge more girls but why do i have this strange feeling like i dont need to knowing that i got sumthing that i like already!!!

and beeing true to her is what i want which is so ****ing gay but i aint ****ing gay?

Thats It!!!

!!!BANG!!!

No i am still alive but my **** miss,s her too its so soft right now!!!

seeeeeeeeeeeeesh help!!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lordson

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okay you miss her.

how long have you been going out for

who she gone on holiday with and where
 
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3countriesPlan

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my gf going on holiday to.. holidays can be a good way of letting her have some fun.. and a good chance for you to go out with friends more and party like college again!
 
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five star post
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Purple-Haze

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StoneCold said:
My gf is gone on hoilday for 2 weeks its been 4 days since and i miss her loads

she must miss me even more like crazy

i try and keep my head off her and do other things but from time to time i think about her and i miss her

Not coz im gay Becuz i really do miss her

I know her and shes not the cheating, but i dont trust women at all even the ones who seem to be perfect or different are hoes?

Explain

I will sarge more girls but why do i have this strange feeling like i dont need to knowing that i got sumthing that i like already!!!

and beeing true to her is what i want which is so ****ing gay but i aint ****ing gay?

Thats It!!!

!!!BANG!!!

No i am still alive but my **** miss,s her too its so soft right now!!!

seeeeeeeeeeeeesh help!!!
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Since when did missing your SO become a "gay" thing? You shouldn't have to explain your feelings like that (especially not on an online forum).

It's perfectly OK to miss her.
 
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Prodigy746

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Why does it seem like you have no other firends besides this girl. I wonder what would happen if she suddenly broke up with you...would you commit suicide?? You need to go out with your friends and have some fun.
 
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lordson

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my girlfriend went away on holiday this week, and so far, i've been cathching up with my old mates alot

use it as an opportunity
 
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DoctorLW

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2 weeks is nothing. It'll be over before you know it. Just enjoy yourself in the meantime.
 
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MCristo said:
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Definately.

TBH if you can't go for that long without her then you've got much bigger problems. Man up or in 2 weeks we'll be having to give you advice on how to handle being dumped.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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EricInTheHouse

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I think you'll make it dude, and this thing about her cheating on you...well looks like a trust issue, and That is one of the major things for a good relationship...trust. The other one is communication, and I think you should discuss this with her.

I wish I had a GF even to miss, lol
 
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You've made this woman the center of your life and now your feeling the side effects of her being gone. Personally, I think you should get rid of this girl and work on yourself because you're not ready for it.

You need to find completeness in who you are and not find that completeness from some woman. What the hell are you going to do if she walks out of your life? I hope you don't commit suicide. There is no guarantee she will stay.

I see nothing wrong with missing someone, but your's is unhealthy and all consuming.
 
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You miss A GIRL?? You're so gay.

LOL
 
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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Well you miss her alot. But, does she miss you? Maybe she will end up fvcking other guys while your act home actn like a b!tch...
 
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You've made this woman the center of your life and now your feeling the side effects of her being gone. Personally, I think you should get rid of this girl and work on yourself because you're not ready for it.

You need to find completeness in who you are and not find that completeness from some woman. What the hell are you going to do if she walks out of your life? I hope you don't commit suicide. There is no guarantee she will stay.

I see nothing wrong with missing someone, but your's is unhealthy and all consuming.
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Spot on. You're letting your relationship define your value as a person. Co-dependency to this degree is unhealthy, and I speak from experience. Even if she is loyal and you have nothing to worry about, a relationship like this is doomed, IMO.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Wow, is this a joke? It looks like a youtube comment!

I will sarge more girls but why do i have this strange feeling like i dont need to knowing that i got sumthing that i like already!!!

and beeing true to her is what i want which is so ****ing gay but i aint ****ing gay?
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Amazing stuff, I love it :up:
 
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young_gun

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If you mean "being true to her" as in referring to being exclusive to your girlfrend, you have some serious growing up to do. Don't cheat on your girlfriend. If you don't want her to cheat on you, don't do it to her.
 
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