GF gets really drunk to the point where she passes out

[Shivastorm_88]

We were supposed to go to a party (friend reunion of hers) out of town together, but I ended up cancelling because I was feeling like crap (I actually drank too much on Friday and ended puking quite a bit myself, she ended up taking care of me).

Now the same thing happened on her end. She went to the party, and she texted me this morning apologizing about not giving a sign of life, saying she got really drunk and passed out.

How would you guys go around this?

 

[Desdinova]

So it's okay for you to do it but not her? How old are the both of you?

 

[Shivastorm_88]

27 the both of us.

Thing is, for me it happens once in a blue moon, literally. And it's because I never drink, hence I can't handle my liquor. I got sick because I was at a bring your own wine restaurant with friends, we each had a full bottle of wine and a few beers.

She, on the other hand, does it a bit more often. Maybe once every month or so

 

[narcissist]

its called subtle punishment when she drinks. eventually, based on the laws of classical conditioning, she will cut down.

but i only suggest doing that if you really feel the "need" to stay with this girl and are going to marry her - which i would advise anyone against. (I put need in quotations because no one needs another person.)

other then that exception either deal with it or drop her and move on to someone who doesn't drink if it bothers you that much.

and if it does bother you that much then this will only be the beginning of your problems with this girl.

i foreshadow a break up in the midst.

 

[LP700-4]

Why are you both in the first place drinking till you pass out regardless of how frequently? Zero self control or respect.

 

[Desdinova]

Isn't this something that 21 year olds should be doing?

If she's got a drinking problem, then it's not going to go away until SHE does something about it. You can tell her you don't like it until you're blue in the face, but if she's dependent on the alcohol, she'll just keep on drinking.

 

[VladPatton]

Both of you have no self control , therefore neither has right to condemn the other. Marry her.