"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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GF gave me the REASONS FOR BREAKING UP!

EvilSpirit22

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I talked to my girlfriend well ex girlfriend and she wasn't that much angry now although things are still hurting her but she said if we could be friends but I said NO. So she gave me some reasons for not coming back to me.

1. You've started to ignore your friends and you fought with them just because of me.

2. You've made me your life although I am just a part of your life.

3. We are still young and this is not the age to be talking about marriage and kids.

4. You've made this relationship a priority.

5. You were a bright student but you said you would do a ****ty job just for the sake of staying with me don't ruin your life for me I can leave you anytime so why would you waste your life on me.

6. Too much restrictions like don't talk to other guys etc when you know I love you do you think I could leave you for a person who doesn't matter to me.

7. You hit me you abused me but still I am with you because I love you why can't you see that and why can't you trust me.



Yeah I agree with all of them and she is right. I made her my life. I can get her back and I know she loves me but I can see the amount of pain she's going through. I need to get my life back together. She loved me for the person I was when we met not for the person I am today. Insecure and jealous. I gotta get my **** together.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No.Danny

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What is wrong with you!!??
You got her then you went FULL MOTHER FVCKNG AFC MODE. YOU FOUGHT WITH FRIENDS? GIVING UP FOR JOBS FOR HER?? YOU'RE CREEPY
 

j.619

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creepy af.

We've all been there, though. Good on her for explaining it to you so this forum didn't have to. Read The Bible and take notes. Make the decision to change your life now.
 

pyros

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you started another thread about this same girl and you got a lot of replies, wtf?

She is not that into you. Accept it.

5. You were a bright student but you said you would do a ****ty job just for the sake of staying with me don't ruin your life for me I can leave you anytime so why would you waste your life on me.

7. You hit me you abused me but still I am with you because I love you why can't you see that and why can't you trust me.


she says she lovse you but she says she can leave you at any moment. Uh uhh...she's not being honest about something...guess what?

Move on.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I am a little worried that she is accusing you of "abuse". I hope she doesn't get pumped by one of her man hating girlfriends into calling the cops on you. Lay low and watch your a$$.
 

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EvilSpirit22 said:
I talked to my girlfriend well ex girlfriend and she wasn't that much angry now although things are still hurting her but she said if we could be friends but I said NO. So she gave me some reasons for not coming back to me.

1. You've started to ignore your friends and you fought with them just because of me.

2. You've made me your life although I am just a part of your life.

3. We are still young and this is not the age to be talking about marriage and kids.

4. You've made this relationship a priority.

5. You were a bright student but you said you would do a ****ty job just for the sake of staying with me don't ruin your life for me I can leave you anytime so why would you waste your life on me.

6. Too much restrictions like don't talk to other guys etc when you know I love you do you think I could leave you for a person who doesn't matter to me.

7. You hit me you abused me but still I am with you because I love you why can't you see that and why can't you trust me.


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wow. that's pretty much the cliff notes version of the dj bible.
 
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