"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

GF changed plans with me?

adamw5963

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 13, 2012
Messages
68
Reaction score
0
Ok we talked last night with her 2 friends that we were gonna all go drink together tonight. This morning she told me she would text me later today. Well she didn't text me til about 5 which isn't normal for her. We texted a little. Well now it is 8:30 and I asked her if we were still on. (I know that was a mistake). Anyways she said she was drinking with some friends but I can come over later tonight. I'm kinda pissed and hurt haha but I do want her to enjoy time with her friends but she could have told me. Idk why she acted so strange today but anyways how should I respond?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

The Gambler

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 8, 2012
Messages
371
Reaction score
12
Don't do ANYTHING about this. This is the first time, right? If so, don't overreact... If she does it again tomorrow and the next day, however, it may be time to take care of yo' business.

The Gambler
 

adamw5963

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 13, 2012
Messages
68
Reaction score
0
The Gambler said:
Don't do ANYTHING about this. This is the first time, right? If so, don't overreact... If she does it again tomorrow and the next day, however, it may be time to take care of yo' business.

The Gambler
I gotcha. I was jw what I should say to her. I don't want to have to wait and come over later after her friends leave. Like I'm leftovers or something haha. What should I say?
 

Purefilth

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 13, 2012
Messages
2,749
Reaction score
73
Location
BEAST MODE [ON]
adamw5963 said:
I gotcha. I was jw what I should say to her. I don't want to have to wait and come over later after her friends leave. Like I'm leftovers or something haha. What should I say?
say 'goodnight ill see you ABC at XYZ'
 

Droz88

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 19, 2012
Messages
132
Reaction score
2
Why do you think she would do something like that? Did she give any excuses?

Oh and why was it wrong to ask if you were still on?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Top