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gf asks me if i'm inlove with her

Raikojo17

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my gf is realitively new. we've only be together for about a month. her dad told her im in love with her, so she asked me if it was true. i dont wanna come off all AFC because i really just got with her and i think it's too early for all of this love stuff.

I told her that she would find out in time if i love her. through other way except text message( this was on text,lol).

did i make the right move?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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What kind of conversations are you having with her dad for him to tell her this??? :confused:
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
What kind of conversations are you having with her dad for him to tell her this??? :confused:
i dont talk to him. it's just that i talk to her all the time. and she talks about me all the time..

he doesnt know that we are together yet (he's very controlling of her and wouldnt be happy to know, he is the only who doesnt know), so he thinks she's "leading me on". and that im in love with her.

he doesnt want her to have a bf ( he already has this guy that he loves, and would be happy for her to be with him. but she doesnt like him), and doesnt want her to give me the impression that she likes me alot (which she does, as we are together).
 

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Raikojo17 said:
i dont talk to him. it's just that i talk to her all the time. and she talks about me all the time..

he doesnt know that we are together yet (he's very controlling of her and wouldnt be happy to know, he is the only who doesnt know), so he thinks she's "leading me on". and that im in love with her.

he doesnt want her to have a bf ( he already has this guy that he loves, and would be happy for her to be with him. but she doesnt like him), and doesnt want her to give me the impression that she likes me alot (which she does, as we are together).
Sounds like her dad is trying to c0ckblock you by using reverse psychology. Pay no attention to him or her sh1t test.
 

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DJDamage said:
Sounds like her dad is trying to c0ckblock you by using reverse psychology. Pay no attention to him or her sh1t test.
Definitely has "drama" stamped on it.
 

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