"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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gf asks me if i'm inlove with her

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Raikojo17

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my gf is realitively new. we've only be together for about a month. her dad told her im in love with her, so she asked me if it was true. i dont wanna come off all AFC because i really just got with her and i think it's too early for all of this love stuff.

I told her that she would find out in time if i love her. through other way except text message( this was on text,lol).

did i make the right move?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What kind of conversations are you having with her dad for him to tell her this??? :confused:
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
What kind of conversations are you having with her dad for him to tell her this??? :confused:
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i dont talk to him. it's just that i talk to her all the time. and she talks about me all the time..

he doesnt know that we are together yet (he's very controlling of her and wouldnt be happy to know, he is the only who doesnt know), so he thinks she's "leading me on". and that im in love with her.

he doesnt want her to have a bf ( he already has this guy that he loves, and would be happy for her to be with him. but she doesnt like him), and doesnt want her to give me the impression that she likes me alot (which she does, as we are together).
 
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Raikojo17 said:
i dont talk to him. it's just that i talk to her all the time. and she talks about me all the time..

he doesnt know that we are together yet (he's very controlling of her and wouldnt be happy to know, he is the only who doesnt know), so he thinks she's "leading me on". and that im in love with her.

he doesnt want her to have a bf ( he already has this guy that he loves, and would be happy for her to be with him. but she doesnt like him), and doesnt want her to give me the impression that she likes me alot (which she does, as we are together).
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Sounds like her dad is trying to c0ckblock you by using reverse psychology. Pay no attention to him or her sh1t test.
 
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DJDamage said:
Sounds like her dad is trying to c0ckblock you by using reverse psychology. Pay no attention to him or her sh1t test.
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Definitely has "drama" stamped on it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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