"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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my gf is realitively new. we've only be together for about a month. her dad told her im in love with her, so she asked me if it was true. i dont wanna come off all AFC because i really just got with her and i think it's too early for all of this love stuff.

I told her that she would find out in time if i love her. through other way except text message( this was on text,lol).

did i make the right move?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What kind of conversations are you having with her dad for him to tell her this??? :confused:
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
What kind of conversations are you having with her dad for him to tell her this??? :confused:
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i dont talk to him. it's just that i talk to her all the time. and she talks about me all the time..

he doesnt know that we are together yet (he's very controlling of her and wouldnt be happy to know, he is the only who doesnt know), so he thinks she's "leading me on". and that im in love with her.

he doesnt want her to have a bf ( he already has this guy that he loves, and would be happy for her to be with him. but she doesnt like him), and doesnt want her to give me the impression that she likes me alot (which she does, as we are together).
 
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Raikojo17 said:
i dont talk to him. it's just that i talk to her all the time. and she talks about me all the time..

he doesnt know that we are together yet (he's very controlling of her and wouldnt be happy to know, he is the only who doesnt know), so he thinks she's "leading me on". and that im in love with her.

he doesnt want her to have a bf ( he already has this guy that he loves, and would be happy for her to be with him. but she doesnt like him), and doesnt want her to give me the impression that she likes me alot (which she does, as we are together).
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Sounds like her dad is trying to c0ckblock you by using reverse psychology. Pay no attention to him or her sh1t test.
 
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DJDamage said:
Sounds like her dad is trying to c0ckblock you by using reverse psychology. Pay no attention to him or her sh1t test.
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Definitely has "drama" stamped on it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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