Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
1,5 years of dating without sex??? Man You must be crazy! Anyways, she wont be Your wife. Its just not possible. Think a little if maybe she wasnt spanked by somebody else and now she wants it.. Anyways girls like stuff like that. Some girls like to hear they are sluts etc in bed.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
21-6.5=14.5
Can you tell me some lotto numbers with your crystal ball?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
blue.....I'm sure he's pretty damn capable of doing a search, and I think he knows by his experience that she loved it. He's concerned about himself and his feelings.
Beeing with 1 girl is not possible during lifetime. It would be hard for man, but for woman its just not possible. Its nothign personal but if shes 21 now i say she already cheaten or soion shes gonna dump You. Think if somebody else aint spank her?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
True.. But how many peole do You know who been together from beeing 14 and ended as married happy couple?Originally posted by spider_007
21-6.5=14.5
haw many chicks do you know gave it up at 14.5