"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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gf and I got into debate about buying drinks for girls

aix237

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So me and my bpd gf went out. Some dude asked her for a cig. She gave one to the guy. The guy knew I was with her. But she then said to him what are we shooting? Dude buys her a drink. Cool with me cause she's broke and im buying her s1ht for her all the time. I then said dudes a chump cause he bought u a drink and he knew I was with u. She then said oh I thought u told me if a girl came up and asked me to buy a drink I would. Think that was an excuse for her to do it. I said wtf did I say that? I never do that. I have girls buy me drinks which is true. I then said how would u feel if I bought a random girl a drink? Said what I thought and iwas like exactly.
Im a student of mystery and follow his sh1t religiously. I wanted to bring all that sh1t up but I didn't. I did say though what makes a random girl have such value that I should buy them a drink? She said its customary. I laughed and said yea ok. She probably thought I was hinting at her cause I buy her drinks but I wasnt . I was only telling her I dontdo that sh1t.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJDamage

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aix237 said:
So me and my bpd gf
That pretty much did it for me.

NEXT!!

Word of advice: maybe it just me but I find it hard to decipher your post, it seems as if you are just typing the words that come to your thoughts that makes sense to you but when it comes to explaining the whole story to others in a more clear and concise manner, you may have lost the objective.

aix237 said:
She said its customary
That is a typical entitlement attitude chicks in North America have due to desperate guys doing despereate things.

The thing is with the guy that bought your girl a shot, I didn't sense he was desperately trying to pick her up (knowing you were there) but rather a way of "thanking" her for the free smoke. Although I don't doubt for a second that he is the type of a guy that buys his time and if he runs into your girl next time without you being around, it shouldn't be too difficult for him to break the ice and try to get in there.
 

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Dude, why sit there and argue with your girl over buying drinks. If she's getting some douche to buy her a drink, and you get some slob to buy you a drink, and you both go home with eachother after a night of free drinks, then guess who wins.

Not that this happens very often, but when I go out with my girl, the first round is always on some poor slump. She walks in, finds a guy, chats him up for a bit, gets him to buy her a shot of patron chats him up a bit more and gets a bicardi/coke chaser. Guess who the second drink is for.

5-10 minutes of conversation and 2 drinks. I WIN!!!
 

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aix237 said:
I then said dudes a chump cause he bought u a drink
Why, she knows this already. Or did you just want to highlight your elite set of social skill knowledge?

aix237 said:
Im a student of mystery and follow his sh1t religiously. I wanted to bring all that sh1t up but I didn't.
Yeah try to suppress that urge if it comes up again.

I dont even understand why you made this post, and why is your writing so sh!tty to understand, I'm no spelling nazi or anything but wtf.
 

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Last time I was in Vegas it was with mega-boob party girl, best run we had was 3 rounds of free drinks and she still came back to the hotel with me every damn night. Viva Las Vegas.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This is the same girl we talked about last time? Whole thing has been covered before. you guys just didn't see the thread. don't waste your time.[not even worth my time to fix this message]
 

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Your post reads like one long text message.

Word of the day: Colloquial (adj)----pertaining to words or expressions more suitable for speech than writing; in informal, conversational style
 
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