"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Gf already getting tired of me?

wabu07

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well i just hooked up wit my grl last week. and she sits in front of me in class. we talked everyday and kiss all the time. she even told me yest i make her smile and stuff but today i saw her every period and i have class wit her where she sits behind me everything felt alright but i imed her rite now and she didnt respond and signed off. how many times a day should i see her so she wont get tired of seeing me? Should I ask my teacher to change my seat and move me to the other side of the room and flirt with the girl there to get her jealous? and is it ok if i dont call her everyday even though the relationship jus started.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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just so suave

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oh no...

of course its ok that you dont call her everyday, you should only call her rarely, remember, if she wants to speak to you she'l call you...

as for the I.M dont speak to her everytime she is online, again, she'l message you if she wants to speak :)
 

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whoa, man, if you are serious and not a troll then you need some real help. Read the Bible ASAP and repent of your chumpish ways. Only Pook can save you now!

(and don't EVER call her except to schedule an in-person encounter! phones are for girls, same with AIM)
 

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na man im not a troll. its been a we i had a girl cus i was busy trying to get my life in order. the whole puppy love thing got the best of me and i was having a nervous breakdown. well now that im calm and more focus i think i know what i have to do. just chill relax be the prize stop smothering her and make the time with her the best so shell want more. but not give her more. lol but thanks guys i needed to vent.
 

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Obsidian said:
phones are for girls, same with AIM)
So true, IMing was fun back in the 6th grade, time to act like a man. Phones should only be used as a connecter, not a place to hang out and chat (unless it's serious, someone died, ect.).
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Honestly You should stop talking to her on aim alltogether just use the phone and in person. Why the hell would you talk to her on AIM shes ur GF dude! P.S if you dont talk to her for a day thats Perfectly ok man. Make her Know what it feels like not to have your presence.
 

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troll
 

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curious, how do you define hooked up?
 

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wabu07 said:
well i just hooked up wit my grl last week. and she sits in front of me in class. we talked everyday and kiss all the time. she even told me yest i make her smile and stuff but today i saw her every period and i have class wit her where she sits behind me everything felt alright but i imed her rite now and she didnt respond and signed off. how many times a day should i see her so she wont get tired of seeing me? Should I ask my teacher to change my seat and move me to the other side of the room and flirt with the girl there to get her jealous? and is it ok if i dont call her everyday even though the relationship jus started.
look man, dont go all in, u just started, & no, dont call her every day, actually if it any1 call'n it sould b her.

u don't hav 2 flirt wit uder girls 2 make her jealous, just let her no she not da only girl in u'r life (i hope), dont let her control u.

next time u think of call'n her every day, or start fantacysing ova her
***** SLAP U'RSELF

b a man....cheeeez!!!
 

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java01 said:
look man, dont go all in, u just started, & no, dont call her every day, actually if it any1 call'n it sould b her.

u don't hav 2 flirt wit uder girls 2 make her jealous, just let her no she not da only girl in u'r life (i hope), dont let her control u.

next time u think of call'n her every day, or start fantacysing ova her
***** SLAP U'RSELF

b a man....cheeeez!!!
this is the single most painful post to read on this forum.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Capt.Jack Sparrow

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As for the person who started this thread..

What are you? mentally retarded? Why try and get her jealous? It'll prolly look stupid on your half and make things worse

Its just the first week right? Take it easy man it looks like you might be rushing things a bit. Give her some space, you don't have to hoard her 24/7
As for the calling thing keep it light call her once at night maybe every other day or something, 'cause i mean.. you do see her at school.. but however you want to do it man.

Don't keep the conversations over 40 minutes though.. thats too long and I'd rather talk to a chick in person if its gonna be that long

P.S.
AIM Is for little kids man.. Grow up!
 

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just c her less and less so she will be chasin you heaps, i recommend u and your girlfriend should smoke some weed together, it will put both of you at PEACE, i hope that helps, i'm outta here to practice my DJ ****
i tend to think even if i am good (most of the time) to dealing with rejection (most of the time ), i realize you can't have the sweet (pvssy) without the sour (stupid chick crap that makes us go "huh")
 

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As a guy who has been with his girl for three years, let me tell you this:

A. Talk to each other in person. Never engage in IM/email/phone/text messaging unless you're planning a date or you have scheduling changes. (The only time I'd permit that stuff is if you were LDR.) Talk in person.

B. You don't need to hang out everyday. For me, once we hit the two month mark we started spending about five days a week together and that worked for us. But at the beginning, 24/7 is overkill. Give each other some breathing room. Which brings me to my next point...

C. Remember that your girlfriend is NOT your life. She is a PART of your life. I love my girl very much and she is a large part of my life, but I also have friends who I see on a regular basis and person hobbies I enjoy by myself.
 

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Just smoke weed wit dis biatch and take advantage of her when she is wasted
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

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PUK said:
Just smoke weed wit dis biatch and take advantage of her when she is wasted
Thats kinda rape. I would not call that a good solution.

I am new. My input is limited. I read the bible and my succes has gone through the roof ( comparatively to how I was). I have had 3 girls practically raping me at once this week. I have come along way in 2 months. You can too! Read the bible.
 
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